Agree. Someone else here coined the term, "Default locked", which is how I describe my situation. The cage is locked unless there is a good...
Keep in mind that while the resources you've been pointed to (and most of this particular site, really) are heavy on the femdom, FLR, etc, angle,...
I've seen this with my own wife, in that pre-menopause she had what I'd call a 'normal' libido, in that there were ups and downs, but we were...
Depends Realfit. No, really. Try it. The padding helps to make the little pinches through the bars not a problem, and absorbs all the drips of...
To add... I've been playing around with this both to secure my 'normal' cage (avatar), as well as a CagInk Cellmate2. The normal cage uses a...
The Terrence version is here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089CWC4CG?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1 [ATTACH] Not going to make any...
Having been curious since I saw Tetherspout a long time ago, I've been playing with the knock-off version available on Amazon. While the options...
Fantasy - "It feels so good to have the cage back on" Frustration - "I want out, and I can't." Bargaining - "I will clean the whole house, or...
It's good to hear an example of where things returned to normal. (For some definition of "normal", of course.) I don't want longer lockups. My...
I was reading the other thread about talking to one's wife about chastity after menopause, and it hit home... I was going to post there, but this...
I got one of these recently because I'd been curious for a long time, and found one for a price I couldn't refuse. Installed the app on my...
Accountability. To myself, in particular. I know that if I don't masturbate, our relationship is better in several ways that are important to...
The menopause thread is a little scary to me. My wife is at the age, apparently, where her mother went through menopause, so it's an 'any time...
Many good thoughts. That kind of thinking took me some time for my wife and I to get used to as well. When we first talked about 'chastity',...
Hmm. Not sure I agree with that. In the case of a couple who mutually agree that their relationship is better with him locked, I'm not sure that...
What happens next time you have a wet dream and make a mess? Draw again? A suggestion for a fitting punishment... next time it happens, go to...
Yup, 'always locked' is a good word (phrase) as well. I could be really pedantic say it's not "always"... there are times it's not, but I agree...
The thread about "permanent" chastity got me thinking about my current situation, so I decided to write. It's been a long time since I've really...
This is a fun thread. I'm sorry I missed the bulk of the discussion back in January, but am glad to have caught it now. As I sit here, locked,...
While I had rated myself as 6/2 originally, over the last few months things have changed to 7/2. Over the holidays it was temporarily more like...