What matters is what she considers cheating. If she has locked you up and agrees to control the key, and you masturbate, you are breaking her...
Uhh, normally, that would not be a problem.
You can be amazed at what you can do with a paperclip.
You are a rare and very special woman who is willing to be open to new possibilities. You have a very lucky sub.
Well done. A FLR can be such a rewarding experience when both parties want to make it work. It provides a framework and communication that can be...
No. And, I ask periodically. She likes it. We’ve been at it eight years and it gets more interesting every year. She likes being in control and...
One more vote for a MCN Contender. Mark is great to communicate with, and is available to make changes. Even with a custom cage, getting it right...
It’s a loving and heartfelt letter. I read in it about your desires, and what she is going to do to you. Have you or will you tell her what you...
Welcome! It sounds like we have much to learn from you. I hope you share your journey with us.
Congratulations! Who will be attending the ceremony?
Well, honestly I would not follow your plan. Chastity, and frankly any other kink just won’t work without open and honest communication.
This level of communication is the key. We get together every week over a glass of wine and some treats I make, and discuss the week. This is when...
In very general terms, for at least a mildly submissive male. I say that since he is caged, he has submitted at least a little. 1. Men like...
Let’s try this. Completely remove all discussion of FLR. In my mind, that makes it an entirely different discussion. Let’s say both parties are...
A FLR is by definition asymmetric, the balance of power is not equal. The relationship that it is layered upon, must be full and equal effort....
Keep in mind a FLR can exist without Chasity. In fact, Chastity often gets in the way by directing focus to the male’s kink away from serving the...
The fact is, most men, start out with unrealistic expectations. And, can’t let go. If you are trying to start a FLR, men have trouble letting go...
Why did you want chastity? What was your motivation?
It is less of a generalization and more of a disappointment. It is very hard for someone new to find reliable information that isn’t designed...
Most of what is posted here and on other web sites is a manifestation of male fantasy. What is missing out of virtually all of them is the true...