Thanks for the kind words. :). While I always felt the way I have, if it wasn't for the Wife I never would have had the courage to just put it all...
Do you have any full coverage belts that won't create a major bulge or can be used for tucking? Not sure how sizing works, i wear 36 or 38 in...
More than likely you will need to gauge up to expand the surface area and prevent pressure points
To add to this, ask the piercer for a rubber glove to cover it on the way home so you don't bleed on everything. And wear underwear you don't care...