I'll be locked all month, but not specifically for Locktober. Rather, I've accumulated disciplinary sentences for imperfect behavior, now leading...
I find the idea of pegging and strap-ons titillating, but not enough to go there. My wife has never mentioned any interest. Sissification holds no...
As many have commented, any changes in the past would necessarily have led to a different present, so if one is currently happy it's a good idea...
An interesting thing is happening in my FLR. My wife is becoming simultaneously more affectionate and attentive, and more demanding and strict....
I have also found snug is more comfortable. I recently downsized my Jailbird half an inch and don't regret the expense. In addition to eliminating...
I haven't had intercourse at all since we started chastity so I can't really answer with regard to that particular case. But in general, no, I...
Another aspect of disciplinary punishments, independently of severity, is separating them from a sexualized context. When my wife canes me for...
Thank you for a beautiful and enlightening post, @Goddess Gaia. Testimony to the importance of finding one's own way through all the stereotypes...
Do you think, though, that it helps you improve specific behaviors the way targeted discipline can?
I agree. But I'm not saying anyone "has to" do anything. It just seems to me an interesting way a woman might choose to keep a disciplinary...
My assumption is that as an FLR evolves, a measure of its success is that the man's behavior improves. If punishment is an important element in...
The problem is the lack of a general guideline. You should ask her what the default option is. "When I've been let out and allowed to come, you...
One piece of advice I've seen in other threads is sort of the opposite of the suggestions above: "OK, you're not following the rules. The FLR is...
Doesn't it just? The demands of the penis get in the way! Caging it puts it in its place. And its owner is freed of its tyranny.
I'm curious about these penis sleeves since after a long hiatus my wife has wondered aloud about perhaps resuming PIV. Any recommendations for...
I also wear a Jailbird and it's very discreet. I have a fairly short cage, but I started with a longer one--a sizing error my part. I felt the...
My wife has been keeping me caged without orgasm for longer and longer periods--several weeks at a time. But yesterday she said in passing that...
When I had the FLR talk with my wife she was most attracted to two things: one, that she could have me do her share of the chores as well as mine...
My own observation of human beings suggests this is correct. There are exceptions, of course, but for the great majority of couples, the men just...
Normal clothes. But I stay naked in the morning at least until I've brought her tea in bed, and through breakfast when it's not too cold. When it...