re the njoy i am an drummer and have worn mine many times while performing ..sitting is absolutely no problem .It is actually more comfortable...
ill chime in as well ... the above locked guys have it spot on ... it seems the deflection is apparent .. typical as well ... sorry to hear you...
richard's plug is great i use the medium njoy and like richards the neck is supper small so absolutely no problem keeping in ...actually i have...
hello sounds as if you both enjoyed the month and it would be interesting to hear about any possible extensions to your continuing being in chastity