I wish I had the nerve to get pierced. I would love to get a PA as well as nipples done but I cannot bring myself to do it and so far Mistress has...
I'm glad you are felling better Mistress
I love the one with the women specul;ating if a man is locked or not.
I think that your ring is too small and restricting blood flow. Try the next size up or you could file or shave the inside diameter of the ring...
I usually tell my Mistress that I am honored to suffer sexual frustration for her amusement and that my sissy tears are great lube for her...