Finances in an FLR

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How many males would have signed over all assests

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    #1 serving Goddess, Feb 24, 2021
    In O/our FLR, this male has no bank account, no credit cards, and is kept at home. Where this male is not required to be employed, reciets must be handed in for any purchase this male was allowed to make using Her card. This includes grocery, fuel ect or any privilege ive been rewarded with, such as some weed or maybe a case of beer. Having given up all possession and property to Her, this male finds comfort in knowing its well cared for
     
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    #2 MissyB, Feb 24, 2021
    I could see giving financial control over to Her. Especially the day to day aspects of being on an allowance and having to account for money spent. Women should make the financial decisions, as it works best if one person has goals and plans. That assumes she has her subs best interests at heart as part of her domain.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Feb 24, 2021
    this subject comes up regularly and splits the crowd. Glad you have a way that works for you. Lots of people on here find that too much, but there are some who have the same approach.
     
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    #4 newgirlie, Feb 24, 2021
    As our FLR evolved, we knew each other's strengths, weaknesses, talents and the things we liked to do. My Queen does 95% of the cooking. She is not only great at it, she absolutely loves it, so while I help, she is the Chef. I am better at managing the finances. We both have complete visibility into the bank and credit card accounts, an neither of us spend anything outside of the basics to run the household with out discussing it with each other. Naturally she can make the final decision, but most of the time it is a shared decision. Works for us.
     
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    #5 serving Goddess, Feb 24, 2021
    Outside of a short lived stint in music as a studio muscian in the 90s....good time for selling music.....way better now for aiund a quality recording....and the period where i became a ticket boom truck operator.....i was at home dad, kids to scool and such, household duties.....Her education took off...She now holds 3 different masters....all in medicine.....and starting a phd....emoty nesters.....things really escalated then....W/we were already full D/s....i was nightmare.....for decades and used my ....idk how to put it......my notoriety and miney to attepmt to stay on the sunny side......When i signed all my property ect....Things have never been better for U/us. Link to O/our contract

    https://drive.google.com/file/d/1X64H6TWT4nJyl2GCm6s8FltEt9SPAjVw/view?usp=drivesdk



    Now to be fair W/we are both bi....
    And although W/we have been together since 94...2010 She took a GF, that to thid day is also considered Dominant to me...

    The real one is locked in chest in Her room...There is an additional section for Her GF written in....
    W/we 3 signed at a ceramony They invented, that was attended by myself and 2 ither males in chastity and 8 Womenwe alll still are close
     
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    #6 King Hippo, Feb 24, 2021
    Do whatever works best for you and your partner.
     
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    #7 Isopropylforyou, Feb 24, 2021
    I got Married.

    What's mine is her and what's hers is hers.

    Iso.
     
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    #8 madams-sissysub, Feb 25, 2021
    I share everything with my madam, but she could think of nothing worse than having to deal with all the finances ect. That’s what slaves are for, to handle the mundane tasks.
     
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    #9 serving Goddess, Feb 25, 2021

    Gotta be honest

    I loved that statement
     
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    #10 locked17, Feb 25, 2021
    Wife handles all major money decisions, investments, major purchases. I still have a credit card to do shopping and daily chores / errands. I also have the regular task of paying bills.
     
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    #11 aussie_chaste, Feb 26, 2021
    Some of our properties are 80/20 mine/hers for tax reasons. She bought them, she decides what happens with them. I get to fix them.
     
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    #12 serving Goddess, Feb 26, 2021


    W/we are on the Supreme Females, approach
     
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    #13 billzboats, Feb 27, 2021
    When I met my wife I probably had a -400 credit rating. Just joking! But probably not more than 300. She took over my finances, and I now have over 800.
     
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    #14 billzboats, Feb 27, 2021
    Of course this has been a long road.
     
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    #15 locked_sheila, Mar 1, 2021
    Our approach is my wife does all the day to day running, and I've passed my cards across - I'm more impulsive at buying so it makes sense to have less access and ask if I do want to buy something.

    She is also much better on longer term savings than I am.

    it's important both have overall access - in case anything happened to the other.
     
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    #16 Matt110, Mar 1, 2021
    Im not sure this counts for me. I look after my mistress by providing what she needs (daily expenses/emergency funding), what she wants are pampering stuff like shopping trips, spa days and things for her family. I provide for both need and want.
    So i think my point is that it is important for me to have a few assets to be able to satisfy her and gradually increase the amount that i can provide. It makes me happy that she is happy.
     
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    #17 billzboats, Mar 2, 2021
    No shit!
     
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    #18 Jinkyu, Mar 2, 2021
    she owned it all well before the FLR rook over in the marriage! lol
     
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    #19 amareine, Mar 2, 2021
    i can't answer to the poll :
    we have two bank's accounts :
    one for we both (my rents)
    one for Her (Her rents)
    all for us is paid with mine
    She doesn't mind of what appends on every account
    i've just to be care that She can pay what She wants
     
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    #20 dharmaproject, Mar 2, 2021
    I told my wife/KH that if she decides to collar me that I’d secure a power of attorney giving her authority to sign on my behalf. We have joint accounts and share ownership of all assets. I’d love to do something to make it more in her favor like put her name first on all the accounts, deeds and titles as well as give her official authority to override me on any financial decisions.
     
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    #21 Rebeccaswitch, Mar 2, 2021
    I have given my Wife/Mistress complete control over all finances. Michelle operates the businesses while I attend to all domestic duties around the home.
    All the decisions are made by her.
     
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    #22 slave-in-FLR, Mar 2, 2021
    My Wife has full access to my finances. I do not have any to hers, but she also does not conceal anything from my eyes. Giving full control over my finances to my Wife in terms of blocking my access to my account would be impractical. E.g. I am responsible for daily grocery shopping. I pay for eating out, cinema etc. (when it was available in non-covid times :)).
     
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    #23 Maid Denise, Mar 3, 2021
    I said yes because I am married to my Goddess / wife . She controls all the money.
     
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    #24 serving Goddess, Mar 4, 2021


    I am given a card to use, and i bring receipts home, i havent been required to be employed for many years, so it makes sense i have no account
     
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    #25 winstonmacgregor, Mar 11, 2021
    No reason why this couldn’t be a standard arrangement. If you couldn’t trust her with your finances then why even be in a relationship. That would say that you deem her untrustworthy in general
     
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