Ok, I see a lot of stories where husband is locked and wife tells him that next weekend he can have a release…. However, come the weekend, wife decides she wants him to stay sweet, so offers him a full cum that day BUT nothing else for 3 months - literally nothing, no edging, ruined orgasms for 3 months.. OR… how about waiting a week and you get out the cage for an hour of edging and MAYBE a ruined cum followed by the same the weekend after.. etc etc.. and so it goes on… the promise is always there for better and more but the wife/keyholder can always change it to really keep his horniness at full level for week after week for ages without him ever actually getting a full blown cum… Get the idea? The reason I ask - my wife wants me out of the cage tomorrow - Liberation Day here in Holland… I asked if I might get a cum (earlier than expected)… she isn’t sure… she loves me being sweet while being locked , so I told her it’s up to her.. but I feel I still need to help her regarding how the male psyche works with chastity - she is still learning.. I can go without a cum, so I would suggest I explain a ruined orgasm to her… and discuss the ideas above with her (when we have time of course - family allowing!!) I just wondered if anyone here had a similar sort of deal with their own wives regarding the full cum this week vs the edging for an hour thing instead..
really? I think if my wife suggested a day out of the cage - I would still find it hot to suggest to her “Just a friendly reminder - but you don’t like me for a couple of days after I’ve cum.. you want that or maybe simply drain/milk him to ensure I stay sweet/focused and attentive to YOUR needs??” Maybe that is just me being the normal manipulative person I have always been (I know - at least I recognize it as a fault!!) and something I perhaps need to stop / curb.
I am so curious as to how long my wife will keep me going without a full on cum! I won’t ask as that WILL be deemed as ‘hinting’ which she has pointed out, is not allowed. She’s perfectly awesome!