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  1. L-u-c-y
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    #1 L-u-c-y, Jul 24, 2017
    Would she be the typical dominatrix type, someone who would whip you and use a strap on on you?

    Would she be a "normal" woman but "a bit bossy"?

    Or would she rule every aspect of your life?
     
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    #2 obedient.boy, Jul 24, 2017
    Intelligent, self-confident, a bit bossy, with a charisma... definitely not the dominatrix stereotype type.
     
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    #3 Chastylady, Jul 24, 2017
    For me the cerebral domination is what I like the best. Strapons, whips, or others are just tools to play with that.
    For exemple a strapon can be a reward or a punishment, depend of the context. If I'm wearing a plug or if I have to wear sexy underwear when going to the beautician for a hair removal, it can be a shame, but a big sexual thrill in the same way.
    My ideal woman is the one who loves and care me, the one which know my kinks and likes to play with them.
    My Ideal woman is the one I love and care. The one I understand what are her kinks and I would love to comply to her orders just to makes her happy, even if it makes me adjust a little to truely enjoy exerything!

    PS: a strapon session, could be wellcome thought! ;)
     
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    #4 Kate Medova, Jul 24, 2017
    Intelligent, confident and very much her own person. And a bit bossy...
     
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    #5 Shepherdsflock, Jul 24, 2017
    Ideal would be my wife with a few modifications: I wish she were a little more adventurous (absolutely won't try toys or oral), higher sex drive, and more willing to discuss our sex life.
     
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    #6 Vinny, Jul 24, 2017
    Having had three over the last 47 years, my type is dominant in the bedroom only. My type is someone not afraid to do everything there is to do, but knows when not to do them or how to do them in a safe way. My limits in the past were nothing that requires medical attention. My first mistress was into cuckolding and gang bangs. She did the old sit on my face thing after her dates. This was before the internet so she instinctively knew to do that to dominate me. Our girlfriend did everything you can find on Fetlife to me. My wife will only go so far because she does not like to hurt me. She mainly does nipple torture and CBT as well as teasing and denial. Does not come close the depth and intensity of her girlfriend. Outside of sex, I am the alpha dog in our marriage.
     
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    #7 Steve-0, Jul 24, 2017
    I live with mine :)
     
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    #8 manintyres, Jul 24, 2017
    My ideal woman ?
    @Mash2214 's wife :) .

    Seriously though my ideal woman is someone I can spend my vanilla and kink world's with , someone who we can grow in together and is confident in taking charge of our relationship and while she will always be my Mistress and owner , she will be my partner and someone I love with all my heart .
     
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    #9 LadyS, Jul 24, 2017
    You are a very ,very lucky boy!
    I will still punish you for what you said you were going to put.
     
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    #10 SubVerity, Jul 24, 2017
    Which is why he IS such a very lucky boy! :D
     
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    #11 L-u-c-y, Jul 24, 2017
    Maybe you should take some photos of him being punished ;)
     
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    #12 Jasmic68, Jul 24, 2017
    My ideal woman would be my Wife with the confidence she sometimes lacks so that she gets even more out of our arrangement.
     
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    #13 NsToy, Jul 24, 2017
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    #14 Mash2214, Jul 24, 2017
    Thank You very Much for the complement. I'll pass it on to her. I hope she's not available. In 1984 when I asked her to marry me I was 21 and she was 19. My friends said "You have to get Married , because she's Pregnant." We were married for 5 years before our first child was born. I Married her because she was the best person I knew at the time and she still is. Why she married me? I don't have a clue. Thanks Again for all your Kind words.
     
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    #15 Mash2214, Jul 24, 2017
    I was going to respond to this post but a friend beat me to it Thanks @manintyres
     
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    #17 Jasmic68, Jul 25, 2017
    Am I being particularly dense, or a bit aspergic, I don't understand the That's a bingo image!?
    Is it supposed to be good?
     
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    #18 NsToy, Jul 25, 2017
    Sorry about that. Was trying to be funny. I meant it as that is exactly what I would say about my wife/perfect woman. The image is from the movie Inglorious Basterds.
     
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    #19 Jasmic68, Jul 25, 2017
    Haha. I just wondered why my Wife was like a mad nazi playing bingo!
     
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    #20 Beck, Jul 25, 2017
    Ms. L
    As you wish
     
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    #21 Beck, Jul 25, 2017
    That is if we are speaking hypothetically of course. ;)
     
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    #22 jemima, Jul 25, 2017

    and me.
     
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    #23 Beck, Jul 25, 2017
    Ms. Lucy,
    I am curious, as I am sure many others are, what your ideal woman is defined as?
    Also, what is your ideal man?
     
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    #25 L-u-c-y, Jul 27, 2017
    My ideal woman... that would be me :) And as for ideal man, he doesn't exist!
     
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