I'm not sure if this is the right spot for this, but I'm going to try anyway. Today marks seven days since my last offing. It's an amazing feeling. Not "good" per se, at least not yet. But I feel more myself. I feel more ready to explore myself. Anyway, 7 days. We've got a date night tomorrow. We'll see how it goes.
I’m pretty new to this too and remember my first 7 day lock in. It felt like an eternity. When you’re starting out the excitement it creates becomes half of the challenge in itself. Seeing your cage in place. First 2 to 3 days are so tough (even now I find day 3 the hardest). The release feels incredible… If you’ve done well with your hygiene I’d suggest you allow her to use the key and be the first to play. Mine was ruined by taking a bath beforehand, that flannel felt so goooood!! Follwing that my wife rolled a dice and my fate was 24 days caged. I didn’t know how I’d survive . Ah, memories. Starting out is so much fun!
Well done! It is indeed an amazing feeling. When I was first locked last year I was used to offing every day or two. Now, after much pleasure and teasing I am used to going a month or more between. You spend so much less time wasted on masturbating or looking at porn. A better husband or partner.