Last night my girlfriend and I were baby free and we had the night to ourselves. After some dinner and drinks we came home and showered together and had a great time. We moved to the bedroom to further our evening. She preceded to put the dildo that I use on her in me then proceeded to unlock me. I kind of nonchalantly pleaded with her to not unlock me. Should I feel bad that I came? I was trying so hard to stay locked and not come. The minute she released me I felt extremely sad. Any solution for this?
Mind you I enjoyed it but I just wanted to stay locked. I was in a good place with the way I was. How do i prevent this from happening again? I feel it may always happen. As I have told her this is your toy to use as you may, I just need to earn the release.
If you gave her control then it is not your decision. She took what you gave to her and used it as she wanted. unless she told you not to cum then you did nothing wrong. But, you should always talk about how you feel maybe write her a letter and ask her to consider longer before next time and how you can make it worth while to her. you could even be in a slave pose as she reads it.
I completely understand and I was prepared for that answer. But this unlocking was different from all the other ones. I felt guilty or unworthy. I guess its because I was finally happy being locked up.
It happens, that was your new normal and change without notice is hard. But that is not yours to decide what happens anymore so if you think of it that way it will make it easier.
I have been off and on all year because the basering and my undercarriage do not get along at all. I finally think it is all coming together on comfort and my mind was right and when she took it off I felt little empty.
as the others say, it's not your decision. All the same, it may be worth talking to her about it and explaining how it made you feel. good luck
Like others have said, it is not yours to decide any more. In fact, since you didn't want out and you came, it shouldn't be something to be sad about. Especially since you'll be going back in. Just take it was a price to pay for what you partner prefers. of course more communication about your feelings and her needs never hurts either.
Part of chastity control by someone else is being free of the device. It's how she wants you right now. See it as part of the whole experience.