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  1. chris82
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    Hi all,
    Those who know me on here will know that I participate in long term denial at the wish of my k/h.
    Last night however I commented on how comfy my new cage is (it's a cheap version of the jailbird) and it's the best device that we have. I have a plastic number lock being used to ensure that the device is never removed without my k/h knowing and I also have a hardened and quite a hefty padlock fitted. After telling my k/h how comfy the device is she then told me that it is a good thing as she threw the keys away the other day.
    Now.... I can normally tell if she is joking and she will normally tell me after an hour or two, but nothing!! I haven't seen the keys for a while but I don't think she would PERMANENTLY lock me up. I have to admit I'm aroused by the idea but also worried as to when or if I'm gonna be unlocked again. Your opinions would be great to hear? Do you think I should be worried or just except it as her ddesires.
     
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    Billus Laconic.

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    I would suggest you just take each day as it comes, and don't stress over 'permanence' or not. Nothing a bolt cutter couldn't handle in case of emergency. If she's really going to be the kh, you swallow hard and go where she leads you. Maybe she's pushing your buttons or testing your limits. You'll find out, I'm sure.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    well id be a bit worried. Hows you gonna clean proper and shave. it is up to your Mistress course it is but i wud if i was you ask Her if She might get another key just in case.
     
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    Excellent advice @Billus…. Chris you must just go with it…. out of respect to your KH and your comitment to her service you have no choice. Just be thankful she did this after you told her comfy your new cage was…. and not how dreadfully painful it it!!!

    good luck and enjoy serving he with a smile on your face in the meantime!
    Keep up posted
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    I spent a year in a Jailbird, and had no problems with shaving or cleaning. At worse, you take a Q-tip and go around the back of the head to wipe out any gunk. Shaving was easy.
     
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    Yeah, cleaning is not an issue. Like billus stated. It's very easy. It's open and nothing like the cb series. I could live in the cage 24/7/365 and have done before, but always knew the option was there if my k/h wanted to release me.
    I admit I have fantasised about having my cage cold welded but it was only a fantasy lol. I got a feeling things could be developing and I must accept my fate.
     
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    Sounds like she LIKES it, and so HAS put a lock on it. If it's forever, you have just won today's fantasy fulfillment award. I'm jealous. .
     
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    Haha thanks incs100 that made me laugh.
     
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    Permanent chastity?
    See my album, what my KH wife has done!
    She's sealed the lock post with adhesive
    Now unless the lock post is cut, there is no release
    It was my KH's wish and she did it without informing me beforehand
    When asked, she replied, "It's my cock. I will do whatever I want!"
     
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    Haha your k/h sounds cool. Looks like it's two of us that are permanently screwed. And not screwed in the sexual way lol.
     
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    Asked again last night, and Ohhhhh boy..... I get the feeling I'm in this permently. Never mind, it's quite a turn on really. Just hope I get some more teasing now I could be faced with permanent denial.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    If she wants and can then why shouldn't she?
     
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    This is very true, it's hers to do with as she wishes. Just would have like to have known for sure and not need to guess or assume lol.
     
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    It doesn't sound like you need to assume any more. Besides it's just your orgasms. No big deal.

    Now you just have to concentrate on pleasing her all the time and make her orgasms good enough for the both of you. Since I have been permanently denied, my wife has made sure that I perform to that level. :)
     
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    Maybe best just to assume you are not going to ever again and just relax into it.

    Save all the worry.
    Xx Wendy
     
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