Am going to give my wife some thought starters on how long to lock me (lock up started yesterday) I’ve set up a poll - which timescale should I push for? Very happy to follow your thoughts! https://take.supersurvey.com/QZWT1DU72 Thanks! ps - longest duration to date is 6 weeks.
Maybe ask her? I guess every relationship is different, but be honest with yourself: Are you locking up for you, or for her?
Indeed that is the plan - I’m just trying to help scale my desires in her mind is all. She may well choose to ignore my suggestions - absolutely fine.
That's a good place to start, then ... wishing you great luck, and also wishing for your wife to enjoy this with you.
Many thanks for completing the poll guys (which is now closed). Most votes went to a 6 month lock up, followed by end of May. My wife is making her own considerations- but I’ve said what I would prefer based on your inputs. Thanks. Thread now closed.
I think it kind of ruins the whole idea of it if you're telling her how long to keep you locked. Have her lock you and then see how she feels as the days go by. It should be completely up to her. If you need to give her a range, tell her anywhere from a few days to permanent.
Poll doesn't work. I was going to vote for "you'll never be unlocked, and will even be buried with the cage on".