Just a question, If a male was locked in a tight chastity cage 24/7 cage for say 5 years, having never been released during that time, and never being able to have erection or an orgasm, Would his erect penis size have shrunk from never have been able to stretch out from an erection during the 5 years? I am curious about this, being locked permanently my penis will never be released so I wont be able to see if its erect size would be effected, but I am curious to know if it would be affected...... I always secretly wanted a smaller penis even a tiny penis, the smaller the better.
Hear, hear and please do pop it on a saucer next to a copy of that days newspaper with the date clearly visible before taking a picture for us.
He's on other forums as well. It's a point of pride that he has locked himself in and has "lost the key" because it cures him of his nasty masturbation problem. I'm paraphrasing but only a bit. It seems like a bit of trolling for wanking pleasure to me or he needs help. Masturbation is not a "nasty problem" for most people - it's usually femdom porn that describes it that way with *the evil woman locking the poor man against his will* into a device that <gasp> he cannot escape. I know ... to each their own ...
Sorry to feed the trolls. Bottom line - you can get out of your little device any time you want. The choice is yours. Just like it is your choice to feel that you have some abnormal masturbation habit for which you need to punish yourself for it.
Of course it is possible to cut the device off, I am not keen to place sharp object in region of my groin. I just don't understand peoples attitudes here. I have been honest why I have chosen to lock myself, and just because I am different to most other people in that I want to stay locked because I have no want or desire to have sex with other people....... Do I have to dredge up a painful past of being molested as a child to justify my hate of sex and the turmoil that sexual encounters create for me.... If people cannot be more understanding of other people and understand that how they choose to live their lives is not how everyone wants..... I thought having a common interest in chastity would be enough. Just because I make a big deal of my keys being lost and being permanently lost and of my hate of sex.... is partly to circumvent the messages, and come-ons from people who are looking for more from me in a sexual way. Just because I am different from the majority, doest that mean I can't tell my story, and that I cannot ask question and post on the form? I also thought this was a place that people could indulge their fantasies? Maybe fantasies are ok but honesty is not permitted?
Paulie - I think most of the people here are honest and honesty is acceptable currency here. My thoughts - and they are just my thoughts and opinions and no one else's - are that I think you might want to look at how you represent your situation to understand how clear it is that you need a professional therapist to work through your issues. Fantasies are one thing but self-loathing to the point where you feel that masturbation is some wicked horrible thing that you need to be punished for is another. And to proudly claim that you "lost the keys" so therefore you have no choice but to accept your situation is a huge red flag. You have a choice. And when you write "my hate of sex" ... hoo boy. It's one thing to prefer to be celibate but to use the word "hate" in conjunction with a basic human desire is another red flag. Just like an anorexic or bulimic may claim to hate food or that they feel overweight - it's usually symptomatic of a deeper issue. There is nothing wrong with you inherently for having these deeper issues - they may be a product of your upbringing or chemistry - but you have to understand that the manifestations may create image problems in the way you convey yourself. No different than an anorexic or bulimic. If you want to say "I just like being in chastity" - that's a whole 'nother thing altogether than harboring this feeling that you are a victim of circumstances and are going to make do with the lot you have in life and hating an essential part of human nature. I will say again: you have a choice. There is nothing wrong with pursuing chastity or cross-dressing or cuckolding or whatever you are into. I think it's good to pursue our desires from a healthy place though. Safe, sane and consensual is the phrase that pays.
You say sex is a basic human desire, Actually there are many people for whom sex is not a basic desire for many reasons. There are many Asexual people and subcategories of asexuality, that to say that sex is a basic human desire that all human share is incorrect. Perhaps I used the wrong word to describe how I feel about sex..... Perhaps it is better described as I find it gross and unappealing. If you want to know more about asexuality go here http://www.asexuality.org/home/general.html I have only ever been honest but for some reason people have chosen to target me... one particular person who initiated this whole disagreement has something against me from another site what I quit because of their harassment and they challenged me on that site just as they did here basically calling me a troll, and doubting my honesty. Please don't dehumanise people who have no desire, or a dislike for sex by saying sex is a essential part of human nature. As for masturbation, I never said I thought it was wrong or that I felt guilty for it, those were someone else's comments. I am in chastity because I don't want to masturbate any more because it was something I have lost control over and spent too much time doing, I actually enjoyed masturbation and did not feel guilty about it, but I want to to achieve more with my life than just masturbate. I am far more productive now that I am locked, and am building a social life in the real world. You make it sound like I am forcing myself into chastity..... I am not.... I chose to live this lifestyle, I know if I really wanted to get out of this device it would only be a matter of time........ But I don't want to get out of it..... I enjoy being in this device. Perhaps this is the wrong site for me I have found another site where many others have the same masturbation addiction, and have taken the same action as myself to regain their lives. The thing to remember is just as not all sexual orientation is the same, not every has sexual desires towards other people. My rule of thumb when reading posts is if I think it is B.S. I don't comment because it is not my place to disagree or call someone a liar, because I am not living in their shoes, I am not living their lives.... So I don't have any proof to call someone a liar, or even to doubt their word..... so I don't say anything...... My rule of thumb is if you don't have something positive to contribute don't contribute at all.... I also make sure I am not a lounge room psychologist or Councillor, that is not my place, and any advice give to a person who may be unstable may cause irrevocable damage or have unpredictable results...... leave it to the professionals.
Joking aside, I think we are getting all mixed up here. Chastity = you stay 'faithful' to whomsoever you choose to have a sexual relationship with, be it real or virtual Celibacy = you don't have sex at all. Even with yourself. This is Chastity Mansion isn't it? Not Celibacy Mansion. Or am I missing something? L x
Re-read your posts. You aren't asexual - you claim to hate sex. That is a big difference. Think what you want but, as I said before, you come off as confused and needing help Even your original post - "gee what will a locked up penis look like in 5 years. I will never know because I'm permanently locked in but I still want a smaller penis." Yikes.
Hmmm, OK then I am reading the original post and I am puzzled at the way this has gone. I really don't know why anyone would bother calling anyone out over fantasy if it hurts no one. Frankly the question in and of itself seems harmless enough to me. I am not even going to address the five year issue even if someone started out to acheive five years it is possible to do it for sure but is it likely? Thats another thing which like I say doesn't bug me a bit. I have acheived over 100 days and after that I know that longer times are possible but whatever. I would address simply this, I have read recently of a credible person into this lifestyle who has been locked up for years now and living a cuckold lifestyle very successfuly on this site and others. This person posts that his original penis size was just under 7 inches before chastity. Now he posts very credibly to me that his penis is now about 5.5 inches even though he is allowed out once a month. I do not think that there is any real evidence to back this up but there is one credible testimony (among dozens) that I find credible. Now frankly I would not have believed it coming from just anyone but this person I do believe. Or maybe even if I didn't and without analyzing too much it is poosible that the O/P question has some merit. As a fantasy though, even to imagine that a penis will shrink, whats the harm after all I don't think anyone has been slandered or hurt here...no? Anyway my 2 bits very late to the thread.
The way I see it is this: If someone starts a thread that is a genuine request for help or knowledge, then members of the forum should respect that and respond accordingly. When someone posts something that is clearly founded on fantasy or delusion, then they can hardly complain when the responses made are equally absurd. Paulie67's is clearly of the latter type, and for someone who hates sex so much I found it surprising that he was compelled to post so many pictures of himself naked on the thread (I see that he has now removed them though). I do really believe that 'we' as a virtual community should clearly flag up such posts so that newcomers who are in search of genuine knowledge do not receive misleading information. I also think there needs to be a greater distinction made here between chastity and celibacy, whether enforced or voluntary, because they are entirely different concepts as far as I can see. Lx