Lady Kat and myself have gone out for dinner dates every 2-3 weeks in the last year. She now always orders for me, just taking complete control. Last saturday evening, i was allowed two beers and when the waitress came to the table asking to refill our drinks, Lady Kat answered " I will have another but he will not. he will be drinking water now. " i thanked her afterwards for the two beers i was allowed. ( we were taking a cab, so dui wasnt a concern, She just didnt want me to have a 3rd beer and i accepted Her decision 100%) She was gone to the ladies room when the bill was dropped off at the table. She came back to the table and asked me if i looked at the check. " No Lady Kat, i'm not allowed to" Needless to say, She was quite pleased with my answer
When we go out my wife now tells me to leave my wallet and cash at home. She will order for me and do most of the talking to the waitstaff. My phone can be remotely locked by her if she wishes, but usually she will hold it in her pocketbook so I pay attention to her. When the bill comes I do not look at it, she handles it. If and when I need to go to the mens room I always ask permission first. It's just part of our dynamic and how she wishes for me to behave and be controlled. I have no complaints, she is fair and loving, but has definitely embraced the FLR lifestyle.
I absolutely melt when Mistress orders for me at a restaurant. She’s not as strict as you all mentioned and I typically order my own refills, but I love it when she orders in the beginning. It helps me realize I’m a well taken care of pet to my Mistress.
This is so much fun! Goddess will often order my meal for me but W/we don’t go much further than that around the waitstaff for fear of making them uncomfortable. There are several other restrictions i follow when W/we are out though-asking permission to go to the bathroom, asking permission to sit when i return, asking permission to eat and, whenever possible removing my shoes under the table and sliding them to Her. It seems like a minor thing but when i am wearing stockings there is always the risk that someone could notice, especially if they are bright colors or fishnet/industrial net. Also that reaffirms my position and is more aligned with how i eat at home.
Since Mistress moved to another part of the country, we rarely to out to eat together....obviously. But when I visit her, and when we did live closer together, she would almost always decide what I would eat & drink, and she would tell the waitstaff. I would also have to wait for her permission before eating and ask permission to use the toilet. However, I was always "allowed" to pay for our meals. For us, this reinforced the Power Exchange dynamic of her deciding what I could eat, etc.