Being constantly horny is like being under the influence of something. Can’t concentrate, can’t focus and all you think about is sex. Walk through the store and all you see are things the wife can tie you up with and torture you with. It’s ridiculous.
New to chastity ourselves and you are right on. The arousal is so powerful, it’s intoxicating most of the time. And yes, we have found many items in the stores & have created new purpose for them, mostly touch sensory things. Loving our current life situations.
I was under the influence of my princess long before I "officially" learned of FLRs and Male Chastity. But I agree, once I engaged in my orgasms being limited and controlled by her, I have fallen even deeper under her influence...
Compleatly agree with this! It is!! I had a hard time trying to explain this is how it feels to my madam a while back. Madam didn’t quite get it to begin, which is understandable but once she did, she made the most of it!
Being aroused & horny all the time is like being under a spell. Ally my Wife(KH) has to do is suggest something she wants done, either around the house or to her, and it's done. This morning, she put the laundry basket at the top of the stairs and 2 seconds later I was getting it ready and down stairs doing it. She didn't have to say a word. We have also found many items we can use in our T&D sessions. It's amazing what you can do with clothespins, pipe cleaners, washable children paints...The list goes on...
I had caught myself looking at every womans necklace to see what's on it, not sure when this started, it seems like its almost sub conscious. Doesn't matter where we are, I'm always looking. Normal while under her spell ? I'm sure it's just me...
I have reached a weird point myself. I have a constant, low level state of frustration, that can get up to mid level frustration. The thing is that I've been trained out of wanting to use my genitals for pleasure, so I don't fantasize about things I can't have or do...so I'm just stuck with the frustration. I get to empty out every 2 months, and am fine with that interval Chastity isn't the hugely sexual thing it once was, but I love being chaste and denied. I can manage the frustration, and actually find it connects me and grounds me in my relationship with my keyholder and wife. It's just always there in the background.
Absolutely! If I weren't near retirement, and not working as hard as I once did, I couldn't stay locked. It's always in the back of my mind. Instead of a monkey on my back, I've got a monkey on my cock!
I'm just going to echo everything that @Finn-egan just wrote. It's a constant simmer, but after so long, it's a good simmer.
If it's like a drug then which drug? May I suggest a magic mushroom trip: you've got the initial feeling of it coming on strong; a sense of foreboding (maybe you want it to stop); introspection, empathy; the highs and the lows; the mellowing out after the peak. But above all it is an edifying experience which results in a bonding with the one who shares your journey. And yet, your trip will be different to hers.
My KH normally wears the key on an anklet, though sometimes a necklace. I often wonder how many other people might know what it means.