Longer term chastity

Good luck. Going on 14 days . But I want to go 30. After my next release and O I plan on handing her the calendar and let her pick the date. I am curious to see the number of days she picks

 

I personally tryto always be honest with my wife even if I know what I am admitting may be used against me. If you feel that 3 weeks is no longer a challenge for you I feel you should let her know.

 

We have always done long-term Chastity for me We started 90 days and She just kept moving the date up. going on 100 days this time so good luck as i always like to say be careful what you ask for

 

A year has been a goal for a long time.
My longest is a month. Going from a month to a year is a huge jump..

I discussed this with my keyholder and she came up with a four month lockup. I thought it was odd but she said it was 1/3 of a year so logical to her.

I’m at 3 weeks soclosing in on tying my record. Three months seems long and four really long.

I’d suggest a serious discussion and be careful what you ask for as you could get three or like me more.

 

Approaching 5 months now. My advice is it can only work physically if you definitely don't have chafing or other issues building up.

 

Good Luck with your long term Lock Up. I found that it’s easier and goes by quicker if you don’t think about going for say three months. Just a few more days. A few more days. A few more days. Just a few more days. Well what do you know it’s been 100 days since I was released where has the time gone. Think of the little steps it’ll be easier. Good Luck.

 

I'm at 100 days on 15th Jan, tbh it's been ok, much less of an issue than I anticipated.

 

It's great that you've recognized that your masturbation is selfish and disrespectful and distracts from your attention and submission to your wife. Be honest with her, Tell her how often you do it and give her examples of times it's led to a lack of effort. She'll recognize the problem, and most wives are more than willing to help you stop. Please let us know how it goes, have courage and and good luck

 

That is what you wanted @steph17 now you have her to help you. Day by Day by Day.

 

Good, way to go. Honesty is the best policy and the beginning of good communication with your wife.

 

It's great you're key holder locks you up for 30 days. But locking up longer will deny herself any pleasures.

 

No, it's about using the cage to become a better husband. You wanted to stop masturbating and now she's helping with that. You wanted to stop because it was distracting from your attention to your wife. One of the effects is that you'll become more aware of her sexually. Use this awareness as motivation to serve her, to court her again. Convert the sexual energy into romantic energy, like how it was when you were dating and pursuing a really hot girl.

 

When I did my first long lock up, my intent was to stop masturbating. I was very lucky to get a very good key holder,and she not only stopped me from jerking off, she was able to train me not to have erections and/or cums. Now, I've managed to be pussy-free for about 22 1/2 months.

 

That's not necessarily true! Mrs Chaste keeps me locked all the time. I can assure you she gets more pleasure now than at anytime before I was locked!!!

 

For me, I wanted to stop jerking off. However, when you agree to be kept by your Key Holder, her wishes for your fate override your fantasies of chastity. Mine wanted me to be erection-free, cum-free, and pussy-free, for life. I agreed with her, and it's been one of the best things that's ever happened to me.

"Be careful what you wish for. You might get it." Keep those words in mind when you agree to be locked in chastity.