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  1. Disciplined Boyfriend
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    ... that you have an account on CM and participate?

    Does you partner know? Does your partner have an account? Is your partner aware of what you post, read or comment upon? If not, would you ever consider telling them?

    Reason for the question - seems sometimes that a chat comes to an abrupt end as though mummy walked into teenager's room and the dirty mag had to be quickly hidden under the mattress (again). Of course it could be that She Who Must Be Obeyed has called and you need to go and see to her needs. A third option is that the CM server is overloaded and another wood log needs to be put on to keep the boiler stoked.

    Personally, Lady C knows of Chastity Mansion, she knows I visit here frequently, she doesn't want to register her, nor is in any way interested any of the content, not even mine. She does know about many of the people I regularly chat with and their partners, kink, vanilla or other, because I tell her. She even asks how they are from time to time.

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    My wife has no idea this site exists and I hide it from her. She doesn't do a lot of online forum/research (almost zero) and she is evolved to be quite vanilla over time and this site would destroy any chance of her warming up to the idea.
     
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    Mistress knows that I'm on here and even has my login creds so She can check up on me, but I don;t think She ever has, to date.
     
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    Lady C has a cursory glance every now and again and recognises the colours / layout.
     
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    Mistress is aware. Dont thing KH is aware. I get plenty of "tasks" now from KH. I am sure that would go up based on what she sees here ;)
     
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    My owner knows all my haunts and passwords. Just not her scene( and I don't blame her)
     
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    Also. Kinda snarky. Who cares how other people come and go?
     
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    Not me particularly. But interested why people disappear half way through a conver....
     
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    Boredom from the same conversation over and over, maybe. I know I leave that way often
     
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    Or I get put back in shackles in the slave basement that totally exists!
     
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    My better half @MissAmy is here and obviously knows I have an account. I am far more active than she is.

    I don't believe we have any secrets in our life, if we do, they are by accident.

    I am trying to be more "out" than previously, I called her Miss infront of my friends this weekend and I told one of my friends friends (who was a lesbian) that I like cock while we were in a bar and I was rather drunk!

    I hate secrets and most of my friends know my @MissAmy seeks fulfilling cock else where. They don't get it, agree or even try to understand, but I've no desire to lead a secret life.
     
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    I've never pointed this site to my wife. She'd hate it, and I have no desire to show her things that she'd hate. If she asked me, I'd tell her anything she wanted to know, and she can always look at any of my devices (and she has all my passwords already). My job is to be honest and open.
     
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    My Wife knows and understands it gives me an outlet instead of overwhelming her with constant chastity talk :)
    She did set up a profile but hasn’t verified as of yet, and she really only checks things out here occasionally. And that may be a good thing for me really, while she’s become far more strict this last year, it’s nothing compared to some of the accounts I’ve read on here…..no reason to tempt fate too much
     
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    My Wife (KH) knows and reads some of my posts. She thinks it's funny when I say I'm really horny or can't wait until my next orgasm. She also enjoys a lot of the replies and helpful hints that some post. She has gotten some ideas from reading here also. Some ideas on CBT.
     
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    Until recently, I had one device that did not have child controls on it. She did not like that. Our compromise was to whitelist an agreed list of porn sites. The original list was Literotica, FetLife, Cuckold Place, Visualiser, and this site. FetLife offered too much female nudity, so I am down to 4. My adult login credentials have been retired. This site is one of her favorites; I fear she may shrink the list more.
     
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    My wife knows I have an account here, and she does as well... but she isn't very interested in what is on here.
     
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    Same.
     
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    My wife knows that I occasionally post in a chastity forum. To her, it's like any of the other websites focussed on my hobbies. She's not interested in checking this site out, and doesn't really care provided I don't do anything that could dox us.
     
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    First off, great Rumpole of the Bailey reference.

    I also call my Wife , "She who must be Obeyed".

    While my Wife knows I am in this site, She wants nothing to do with it.

    I had asked Her about once and She flatly refused to go on here.

    So I am here for me. To learn and to help myself grow.

    Iso.
     
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    Miss Amanda has an account on here and logs in regularly.
     
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    Very much how my wife is.
     
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    I'd actually forgotten that that was from Rumpole... Used to love him and though if I was going to be a barrister, that's how I'd like to be.

    A
     
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    My madam knows I show her some posts, but she has no real interest in posting herself.
     
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    My Goddess Wife Ms Shauna is a member and comes on here sporadically. She knows I’m check it out daily, and has no problem with it. She’ll ask if there’s any interesting posts, and might go on to read them.
    She actually enjoys me reading the forums, because it’s not really porn. But can frustrate me even more without her having to tease me.
    Which makes me more attentive and submissive to her.
    Sometimes she asks why I torture myself reading this stuff because isn’t being in indefinite denial bad enough. “You must enjoy making it worse” for yourself.
     
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    My Wife does knows of my posts here and on fetlife but only reads them occasionally, but sadly has no desire to register for either, but do relay her views on both if and when She has any.

    My Wife did have a short spell with chat rooms, but found it very unsatisfying.
     
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