Have the ability to have an orgasm of my choosing ever again. We have been implementing chastity and a few different cages since March 2018, but now that im wearing a cage whos security is impervious, my wife pregnant and no longer needing me to orgasm... It may be a very very VERY long time before i am allowed to orgasm, and never again allowed to do so on my own whim. only when she wishes for it to happen. I suppose this is another "step" in the process. careful what i wish for? i wish i had asked her to hold my key years ago! this is awesome. just a thought that crossed my mind at dinner tonight and left me sitting there dumbfounded how i got to this point and what it means going forward. Im excited to see where she leads us next.
We reached that point some time ago, and have had no reservations. I've been locked for just over a year, and my beautiful wife/KH and I are both 59. She decided a while back that we were done with PIV. So, I pleasure her most nights by hand and/or mouth and/or dildo, while I am allowed to unlock for orgasm once every month or two. Most often, I jerk off in front of her, which she gets a kick out of. Occasionally, she will give me a hand or blow job. We both love it, and have not looked back. Don't hesitate! Let her call the shots and you will both be pleased!
We are in our mid thirties... this should be a very interesting handfull of decades to look forward to
Wow I had some of my best sex thru out my thirties. Fit endurance and skill. Can’t imagine giving all that up Good luck sir.
well im married and after 10+ years of marriage we were in a rut. this seems to have lifted us out of the rut, and sent us into the stratosphere. no regrets as of yet. my wife/KH is more adventurous, confident, assertive and i believe a bit of her fun sadistic side is coming out. grabbing me when she wants my attention, using my kinks to improve me as a man as well as address some pet peeves of here i didnt really pay attention too before. now, when she asks me to do something and i dont do it how she likes it to be done, there are consequences
Yes the epiphany...I will never be able to just reach down and touch it or orgasm without her there again. Its an odd feeling and realization. Similar to after a year without getting myself off...I may never do this again.
up till recently i lacked the security on my cage to prevent me from misbehaving. now that that problem has been corrected.... chastity is real, and is setting in. mentally and physically. so very worth it with all the other doors that have now been opened in the relationship with my KH
For me this life is very new to my gf as she reminded me the other day. I had tokd her i would love to stay chast for ever and only be taken out when she wants to play with her cock. No i dont own it just wear it
I've accepted the idea that I'll never feel the inside of a woman's vagina again. It's truly worth it for what we've gained. Wow, It's started to get tight inside my cage just thinking about it..LOL