For some this nothing for them. Me on the other hand i have been in lock and denied for 12 days. I only had a couple of small issues i.e. burning around the balls and a nut that decided he wanted out of the base ring. Early this morning hit me good, woke to screaming erection and my balls feeling full and heavy. During the day I don't even notice that I am in chastity until I have to pee, night when i get home to relax, wow the feeling of it is intoxicating. I got a new chastity cage coming, hoping the tube is shorter because I think I ordered my first one with a standard tube. For now they are the cheap one's but I want to figure out what I need before spending for a high quality one. Thanks for listening!
Ten days for me. Feel you mate. Do you have a goal you’re working toward? As in number of days before release.
I guess end of february but nothing set. I guess my goal is to end a habit that hurts my relationship with the wife. Right now we have been separated for a month due to moving to another state. Long story but 1 she doesn't know that I am doing this and won't know if she will except it or not (chastity). 2 once I fix our house to sell then I am moving to be with her and the kids.
I am keeping an open mind. I have been thinking of doing this for several years. Just didn't know where to begin. I am glad I found CM to read what other people are doing and seeking some unprofessional guidance. I found that the more you learn about something, it could be something that you enjoy. Right now I am liking chastity, I am learning more about my sexuality, body, and mind. My wife is very vanilla with sex so I am hoping to introduce this to her and that she will be open to it.
I can tell you this, being locked up saved my marriage. I don't really want to be locked, but my marriage is 100 times more important to me than mastubating, like I was. My wife definitely likes and wants me loccked. As of today it's been 788 days. It has strengthened our marriage. Good luck to you, hope everything works out for you.
I had the nut issue. Popped out way to much. I now have a gauged PA to 2ga for a snug fitting cage. It took many months to get to 2ga, but we got there. We are now on our journey to long term, at about 40 days caged with jury duty exception days due to metal detector.
Being in chastity is definitely superior to not being locked.It feels like an endless stream of pleasure and eventually it's possible to forget than it's down there,kind of becoming a 2nd skin.