Orgasm denial, how long really?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Her_LM, Mar 13, 2023.

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Denied for how long?

  1. Once a weak.

    22.8%
  2. Once a month.

    37.3%
  3. Once every three months.

    20.1%
  4. Once every six months.

    7.1%
  5. Once a year.

    4.1%
  6. Over one year.

    15.3%
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  1. Her_LM
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    As this is on a "denied orgasm" forum, i wonder how long we Really are "denied"
    Is being denied a few days, a week, or even longer the ultimate aim!

    What do most guys really really want, realy get?, and more importantly, what do most wives/keyholders aim for or desire?


    (as you can see my my third poll, i'm a total newbie to discusing any aspects of chastity and denial, and i'm just looking for as much genuine info as possible. Both my wife and i have read a few books, blogs etc, and almost all say the aim is for almost a few as possible, some say less than double figures a year, some say a couple a year, some say one a month, some say NONE! So i'm just interested to read your thoughts on this denial journey)
    I realise that the fantasy denial is to go so long without one, but in reality it might be somewhat different!
    Please be truthfull in your figures, actual denied times is what i'd like to know.

    For your info, my wife has me on "once every month" so far, but she's aiming for the next milestone, "once every three months" and she's almost there, and i/she couldn't be happier!

    Thanks
    LM
     
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    It all depends. My goal was always to cum about once a month. But so far this year, none. Chastity has a certain effect on me, and it seems difficult to go back to frequent orgasms once you've broken the habit. Honestly, if you have KH then it is all their preferences, really.
     
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    Whenever my wife wants. Something between 2-4 weeks. I never know when.
     
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    I'm about 1/2 way through my longest stretch (Christmas till the 4th of July). My wife has changed her mind in the past and shortened the marathon so I never realy know. When we started 5 years ago it was a few times a month. Last year it was a total of 7 or 8.
     
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    Averages about twice a month, i've had 5 so far this year but 2 of those were accidental ruins.
     
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    I answered based on a full, unadulterated, enjoyable orgasm. None. Ever.
    My wife reiterated her stance on those again last night, “you don’t have full ones anymore”.

    I did answer over a year, but technically it’s only been 267 days… that’s not long right??
     
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    i voted every 6 months buts more like 3 times a year.
     
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    Wow, very impressed with your wife, from two a month, to seven a year! And is your wife happy with her progress?
    Impressed with you too.

    Perfect journy for you both.
     
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    Another impressive story, unfortunately i havn't broken the habbit yet, i'm still craving them, but my k/h has other ideas, and like you say, it's really their preference.
    Thanks
     
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    You need to add permanent denial as a choice.
     
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    Oh my, not sure what to say actually, apart from if thats what you both want, then well done, 267 days......i'm gonna faint. (ps, i'm not sure i'm going to show my wife your reply, she might just tell me thats the normal way to be, none!)

    Thanks
     
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    Oh, ok. I did actually think about listing that option too, but thought "over one year would suffice"
    Should i have added that too?
     
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    It’s a commitment that’s for sure. It’s what she wanted based on the information I shared with her. Our life story is better now.

    There are days when it’s easy, seeing how happy she is. Enjoying new experiences. Discovering so much about each other.
    Some days I read posts on here and I’m dribbling from my cage regretting the decision!
    @Queens servant73 post today around pegging and oral is one example. Keep it PG folks :p
     
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    I don’t know how some of you guys can handle the endless denial lol….

    pre chastity averaged probably around 40-50 orgasms from sex a month

    didn’t keep track ‘20, year one of the cage
    ‘21 averaged 17-18 per month
    ‘22 7-8
    ‘23 the goal is 1 per month, Jan was Bday month so she gave me 4, our Anniversary month is August so I’ll probably get a couple. Otherwise she’s stuck to giving me 1 full per month, and a random ruin here and there

    So she’s definitely weaning me off orgasms

    Maybe ‘24 I’ll know how some of you feel with the insane long term denials…267 days? Or 1 a year? Yikes
     
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    I've just read that post you mentioned, wow...
    PG? not sure what that means? Also, how do you add little emojis?
     
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    :)

    Found it..
     
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    40 a month!! I thought i was pretty active before chastity, but 40 a month! I was maybe 8/10/12 a month, wow, i must of been pretty rubbish before chastity, and there was me thinking i had a high sex drive! ha :)

    Does your wife enjoy giving you less & less?
     
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    8969790A-397C-44DA-BD9C-47810B2D36ED.jpeg
    It’s just slang to suggest we don’t need too many sexualised details.
    Some viewers can’t cope :eek:
     
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    Oh, ok. I hope my posts are too insensitive, or too detailed, sorry.
     
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    Sunday will mark 4 months with no orgasm. My personal best before was 3 months.

    I've had a few wet dreams, but the last one was over a month ago.
     
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    Well done, new record for you then soon. I'm totally suprised at how good our wives are at this, seems to be some very long denial periods, they seem to enjoy denying their man, well, i hope they do, if they didn't then i suppose they wouldn't bother with these long periods, you agree?
     
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    Definitely agree. My keyholder lives in another country but she certainly enjoys me being locked.

    The longer I'm locked, the more I want stay in chastity, even though I crave an orgasm
     
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    Haha, we both have always had a high sex drive, married at 18 and I guess avoided that whole cliche boring married sex life thing lol.
    The cage thing started as just another kinky toy to try out….and here we are.

    Yes, she’s really enjoying cutting down my orgasms, she used to have the guilty feelings etc. Not any more! She has fun limiting erections for short periods, sometimes limiting piv here and there too.
    She’s having fun with it all
     
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    It’s just a joke. I enjoyed the details he put in. I imagined my wife grabbing my head and forcing my lips onto her vagina. My cum pouring from her as I desperately attempted to clean it up. The temporary disturbance in such an act quickly overcome by my own arousal. The taste of my salty ejaculate mixed with her sweet nectar a taste test in my journey into cuckholdry…
    Yep. It was a good post!
     
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    My wife only denies me for the week I've offered to please her without me being satisfied but she said no.
    I've told her about what some here do and she said no that would not be happening
     

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