The issue we have is that I am the product of a gifted student education and have provided my wife and I with a upper income living and lifestyle that neither of us ever dreamed possible growing up poor with uneducated parents. My wife does not want to run our marriage. She only wants to control me sexually and uses that to ensure I am obedient to her and that sex is only for her pleasure. Short version is that she is bi, prefers sex with women, had a female lover who moved in with us and also sexually dominated me for 30 years up til 15 years ago. My wife prefers to handle the household chores and not the type to sit and watch TV eating bon bons. She enjoys taking care of our home and likes that I take care of all money matters and use my brain to continue to give us a great life free of money worries. We also have no kids so we are pretty free to spend all our money on ourselves. Her control is due to withholding sex/orgasms. She prefers I never orgasm as she does not find a penis arousing and thinks semen is disgusting. Plus my penis is only 4 inches erect and I have had ED for over 40 years now. Add to that the fact that I am sterile and was unable to give her the baby she expected when she married a male. No baby but she enjoyed the lifestyle I provided and she had a full time girlfriend which made it work out for all three of us. Her girlfriend was the real dominant one. She enjoyed hurting me sexually and taking every opportunity to show my wife how useless I was as a lover. Now we are just a couple in our old age and sex is only for my wife's pleasure. She never plans on giving me an orgasm but sometimes on the rare occasions she teases my penis unlocked, I do not warn her in time to stop before I orgasm. I am punished for that and she will not unlock me for teasing for at least another 3 months. I do have a few orgasms a year but she paddles my butt so hard that it is black and blue for a few weeks due to not telling her to stop touching me in time. We are not into pegging or all that porn stuff you see online. I do not think many can live like you read and see in porn for any long period of time. My wife is mostly into slapping my face, spitting in my mouth, ball busting, CBT and her favorite, nipple torture. My nips are so long from decades of stretching and punishment. One of my balls is damaged from years of abuse and is smaller than the other significantly and as a result makes it difficult for find a chastity ring that works for me. After 15 years I am very used to being locked in a chastity cage. It is my normal and does not bother me at all. I have learned to enjoy my wife's orgasms and the pain she inflicts on me. Her control is basically if I do not obey her, she withholds sex for weeks at a time, sometime months. Yet, she does not order me to do the stuff you see in porn. It is mostly stuff like take out the garbage, empty the dishwasher, dust, wash and stuff like that. She has no interest to feminize me either nor cuckold me. We tried cuckolding once and unlike you see in porn, she did not orgasms or get aroused. I did not enjoy watching her either. However the sex we had afterwards was great. Prior to my wife I live with a woman who cuckolded me with my three best friends. I ate a lot of cum before I kicked her out for having sex with all three in front of me. Her girlfriend is very dominant and married a cuckold sub she met online. She lived with him and us dividing her time each month to each of us. We retired and moved far away so we became a couple but my wife lost a lover and was not into guys so we went two years with no sex between us until I suggested chastity and that my wife did not even have to look at or touch my penis. Sex is only for her pleasure and all I get is sexual pain. I have not had intercourse for 30+ years and oral during that time was maybe 12 times as the girls said women do it better. I am supposed to be allowed to perform oral on my wife tomorrow for the first time in two years so I am excited. Only problem is that she has a very sensitive clit and will orgasm in under a minute so my pleasure is short lived. I do not know what kind of label to attach to our marriage but we never attached labels. I lived and had sex with two women since I was 21 so that was my normal. We never labelled ourselves or even said the word "bisexual" until my wife was in her sixties. It was just three people who found each other who shared sexual preferences and love.
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Wait you're not eating ass while taking massive strapons from other four. I'm suspicious if this is true.