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    hcin2016 Loving losing control in chastity

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    Hello to all. I am new to the site and also to chastity. Reading thru posts I am fascinated by what I don't know, but excited as well.

    I am also experimenting with chastity, and am a novice for sure. I bought a device and tried it a couple of times but I have just figured out what I really like is to not be in control. So I looked for an online keyholder site and found CArlilock. Never heard of it but thought I would try it.

    Then I put my key in one of those lock boxes , very small with a combination lock. I reset the combination, without looking at it, took a picture of it, locked the box, scrambled the combination. Sent the picture to the site and it was accepted. Deleted the image on my computer so I had no idea what the combination is. On the site you set your max time and min time which I set to 3 days and 1 day, I have only been locked up for hours before so this is making me afraid of what could happen. The release time is set randomly and I dont know what it is. If I ask to look at the release time , the time is increased one hour. I was very nervous.

    But now I am finding that people can randomly increase my time - and if I check to see how much longer that increases my time. I have had eight people randomly add an hour each to my time and inadvertently incurred 14 penalties for another 14 hours. This is much more scary than I thought. I feel completely powerless.

    And another small detail is that someone not on the site or me has to visit a link - not sure what they can do - but that is a condition of release. One non site member has to visit my predicament link.

    I dont' know when the release time is, but whenever it is I have to have someone visit the link.

    So, I was stupid for not reading everything. But any ideas of how to find out how long I have to be locked up. And how to get my release date.
     
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    Ok so calm down just sit it out.
    At least you chose a nice short time and presumably you are comfortable in your device.
    So just go about your life and deal with the waiting by cleaning your house walking the dog going shopping or getting on with building that boat you always wanted. Some times it over runs by a month or three. Lol sorry xx
    Just think beautiful thoughts you are only dealing with a computer. You could be dealing with a strong dominate assertive women who can mess with your head big time.
    Imagine having to lick her to orgasm twice a day . Having to wash her in the shower and rub moisturising creams all over her paying particular attention to her fabulous firm breasts and legs..
    While you stand there not being able to do anything about your little pee pee that is trying to get hard but you have not cum in weeks and you have no idea when you will be unlocked.
    3 days what is a few more hours. xx
    Have your legs waxed and choose some nice hold ups and heels . Getting used to walking in them will help pass the time.
    Be a good girl run along and deal with it.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    hcin2016 Loving losing control in chastity

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    Good advice since I have no choice. My time is getting longer. People keep adding time to my date and I can't prevent this. Totally anonymous I guess. I need one non-member to visit the site. Someone else tried but it did not work for them. Hate to ask but could you try. So sorry to even ask. Your visit will not change my time ( I think) but will eliminate just one of many requirement for my release. Thank you very much.

    Here is what I see on the site.

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    Lol
    Can you cut and paste the link separately
    Though I think I registered to see what it was all about but I will try
    Xx wendy
     
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    So you've gone and scared yourself. That's fairly common for someone new to chastity.

    Follow Wendy's advice and chill out. Unless the CB is causing pain (above and beyond your desire to masturbate) a maximum of 3 days is not such a long time to wait and a couple of hours either way between 1 and 3 days are neither here nor there.

    You've got a CB6000. It may not have occurred to you in your current state, but you can break out of one of those in about 30 seconds if you really want. Of course, that would destroy the CB. Taking a few minutes extra, you could use a hacksaw and only destroy the padlock.

    Where you're trapped is in your mind and what you're imagining. That's perfectly natural and it is one of the great adrenalin rushes that hooks you in to chastity and learning to go longer. When you've learned a bit more and come to terms with the limitations of a plastic CB, think about moving to metal devices that you can't break out of so simply and then you'll remember the deliciousness of your early fears but you'll know how to cope with them better.
     
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    Melody
    That was some post you do know what you are talking about.
    Good girl.
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Melody,
    Actually I am in the chrome metal device that I have pictured. Should have tried the acrylic one for my first time with a keyholder site. I have used a master lock, not the cheap one that came with it. The idea of cutting it off is not bad, but I have to go buy a hacksaw. You are right about the feelings.
    Thanks
     
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    hcin2016 Loving losing control in chastity

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    Here is what I see, thanks

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    If you paste the link to this site we can see what kind of time your facing but we could also add to your time... I've seen people get tons more time from posting it on here so be careful. If you like you could pm me the link and I promise not to add time.
     
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    When I had a cb cage it split 2 times but that didn't happen for bout 12 months. It is scary when you first starts and I hopes that you not do anything silly. oooh and if you cant get it off it is gonna smell a bit after a few days as well cos my one did.
     
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    Interesting situation
     
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    Well Hcin2016, how ya holding up?
     
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    hcin2016 Loving losing control in chastity

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    Ok, but not great. I will never rush into a situation again without reading everything. Thanks for asking
     
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    You're welcome. Any idea how much time you have left??
     
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    Hi

    So nice stainless steel proper lock sit it out .You will be very disappointed trying to cut a proper lock of. The hasp is very hard to stop crooks cutting them off funny enough! !!
    So Hun think beautiful thoughts next time put a week then let us have a proper link.
    Then depending on if you put nice posts we may or may not put time on your lock up .
    Xx wendy
     
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    please Mr. Hcin if i was you i wudnt put the link up in here for your carlock cos if you am not careful it will get folks putting more time on than taking off cos i seen them doing it before. i just trying to help you a bit.
     
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    Surely nobody would be mean enough to do that.
     
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    Ok, out now. Thanks for the help , those that did. Will be more careful in the future
     
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    So what did you feel before you got unlocked ?
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Wendy - being a novice in all of this I have to say I felt very scared, excited and nervous before I got unlocked. I had no idea what I really had gotten into and when things were uncertain I was going crazy. Needed releases and not knowing when it would come was driving me nuts. Anyway, very relieved to get released - that is an understatement, but missing the excitement - may have to try it again but being more careful next time.
     
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    Lol you are hooked
    Xx Wendy
     
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