Wife gave me a break from wearing my cage for the past couple weeks. She just informed me that our anniversary is coming and I need to be prepared for a long lockup. Not really looking forward to this, its been quite nice not wearing my cage and having plenty of sex. I'm starting to rethink this whole chastity kink.
I think you got spoiled with 2+ weeks of freedom. Just go with the flow and you’ll get used to it again. Remember, desperation is a wonderful thing.
I feel like if I told her I wasn't into this anymore I would be disappointing her, she has been really open to chastity and going along with this. She really likes it when I'm locked up and very submissive.
We made the mistake of being uncaged. That's when my wife really realized how much better I am when I'm locked up.
QUOTE="Elfman, post: 680037, member: 68283"]Then communicate that with your wife.[/QUOTE] i could not agree more. In my opinion, communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship-whether FLR, M/s, vanilla or anything in between.
. This is almost always the case for me. Once i get back into my “male mode” as Goddess calls it, i do notice a slight hesitation to go back into the cage, especially when i know it is going to be for a long time. At first, i was like the OP and questioned whether i wanted to continue. After a week or so, i realized that my hesitation was basically sadness at not being free to do what i wanted but i did in fact want to be caged and controlled. Even now, years later, i still have some hesitation when Goddess locks me up after i have in “male mode” but that is more of a playful resistance than a real question. My advice, if you want it, is talk to your Wife but then lock that little thing away and see how you feel. (The nastier and less realistic approach is to talk with your Wife, tell Her your concerns, then present Her with an even smaller cage and ask Her to lock that on you as punishment for questioning your place. Desperation will soon replace hesitation! You asked for it now suffer the consequences, serve your Wife like you should and shut up bitch!).
I hear what you mean. I went a little over a month unlocked. I honestly was not sure I wanted it back on. But once it was on it was like an old friend. I guess I missed it and did not even realize it. But that is me. If you don't want to be locked. You should not be. It is for both of you. Talk to her and see what she says.
I just had this after a week or so out, I wasnt feeling going back in but its what she wanted, after the initial 24-48 hours im happy im locked again. This is the main reason I never try to cum in the cage, the drop, I would feel miserable in the cage for days after, its just not worth a ruined, unsatisfying caged orgasm
I used to get a week or two of freedom fairly regularly in our first couple years on chastity, it was always tough to lock up again, but I realized how much better my mindset, energy and just overall happier when locked. Now when I suggest maybe we take a few days off, my Wife laughs and reminds me I won’t be happy doing that, and she never wants to stop living this way. I know she’s right. As others have said, lock up again for a week or two and then decide how you’re feeling about it all