Do you have an appetite or desire for sex that is impossible to satisfy despite being in chastity? If so, do you care to explain?
It’s all about the dopamine receptors. Like drugs. Always wanting a new high. Chastity slows it all down.
Both my Wife and I have very high sex drives, but my craving for kink was getting worse over the few years before finding cock cages. When my work injury forced me into early retirement, being home and having more time wasn’t good for my twisted mind lol. I started pushing my Wife for more and more sex, longer sex, whatever I could get. So really everything about male chastity fit perfectly into our lives. And it keeps the very twisted kinky side I have under control while my Wife can use it at her pace. Win / Win! But that sex drive is never really satisfied
My sex drive comes in roughly 2-week waves; I usually spend a few days so turned on I am constantly dribbling precum about twice a month, then calm down for a few days; even if I am not feeling super-horny, all it takes is for my Mistress to give my nipples a quick tweak and I'm off like a rocket. I'm utterly helpless to nipple stimulation (I'd love to have a nipplegasm one day, not sure if that's possible for me or not)
Yes very much like drugs. The more you use the thing, the less of a high you get from it all. It can just become a chore or force of habit for some because they are always chasing the dragon and just get tiny pop instead of a grand finale.
My waves are tied to my wife's desires. If she is in the mood (somewhat dependent on my behavior), my sex drive goes into overdrive. I have to throttle it back and focus on small incremental gains like cuddling before sleep or on the sofa making it clear three is no end game. Nipple stimulation??? YES! Sign me up!!! I desperately want to experience a nipplegasm!
I wrote yes, and my partner knows this. She even called me a nymph the other day despite being 58 this year! This is one of the hardest things about chastity is being denied means you want more. That said when I can masturbate I still want more anyway lol. I think because any kind of sexual pleasure I get is with her being present and under her control, chastity means I associate sex purely with her which gives it a refined focus, even more special and valuable. I am extremely grateful for what I am given. I could not imagine life without her and our deviences. But that is such a small part of our relationship, I mean I am permanently locked but in the scheme of things given the amount of time we spend together kink is a very small fraction of our relationship. Of course ill always want more, I can never get enough of my partner in every sense not just sex, so I guess that is the definition of insatiable. Whenever I have a moment of spare thought it will turn to her and how much I just want to bury my face in her.
I am about to turn 55, my sex drive is through roof when I'm not on my anxiety medication, my wife keeps me locked 24-7 until she's ready to play and it's a thrill and frustrating at the same time