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    Question for you subs that keep your body smooth for you KH.
    Has any of your Doctor's ever asked you about being hairless . If so? What did you say?
    I have my first appointment coming up since we started our FLM, and I am a nervous about it to the point I am thinking to let it grow till after the appointment , but I don't like the hair on my body anymore .
    Any advice welcome .
     
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    Doctors / nurses couldn't care less about this. They've seen it all.
     
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    Some years back I had a cardiac episode and went to the Hospital never thinking about Chastity or I was hairless wearing panties and my piercings. collar with a padlock, the night before We were at a pvt party and I was covered in Whip/ needle marks with my butt bruised. We never thought anything of it consenting adults. First, they came in nice and asked Her to leave closing the door this lady said you're safe now you do not have to go Home with Her do you need us to report this... After explaining everything they were finally convinced they left Us along. Why I say this it could have become A Real Problem, Sometimes in this LifeStyle, We forget because in our world We love each other and it all becomes Normal We and a lot of our LifeStyle friends laugh about it now but We had to protect ourselves. Mistress and I now have our doctor in the LGBT Community and its a Family Practice We met with the Doctor and explained Us and the LifeStyle We live FLR and I stripped and let him look over my body chastity cage piercings hairless all. for the first time in my life in a doctors office, I felt comfortable. I recommend but please do what is good for your Mistress and yourself both go sit down and explain or tell them you took up swimming lol that worked for me in school and shave your body hair. Any decision has to be Her and Yourself... wish you good luck hope it helped a little.
     
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    no, doctors wouldn't find this in the least strange nowadays. They'd look twice if you still had the cage on, but shaved - no they wouldn't care less.
     
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    Not even that
    A friend of mine had a situation where he collapsed while in his cage and panties. The doctors and nurses took real good care of him. Sure there were some smiles but he and his wife weren’t worried about that. They were only worried about his surviving and recovering.

    I’ve been shaving for decades now. And I wear panties. If a doctor doesn’t like it I’ll find a different one. In fact I did that when one acted rude to me when I said I was bisexual. My current doctor only cares that I’m safe.
     
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    Rude over bisexuality? That had to have happened in a time warp. Sorry that happened to you.
     
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    I challenge you to find a professional football player with hairy arms, or cyclist with hairy legs, or bodybuilders with hairy anything. The first two shave to lower friction from impacts, the last because it highlights the contour of muscles. This isn't counting people who do it as a fashion statement. Body shaving is nothing to be ashamed of, and no medical person will ask anything about it other than in a medical context. They may ask if you've had cancer because chemo drugs and radiation can both cause hair to fall out, and there are also some diseases that cause hair loss, but nobody will judge you for it.
     
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    Shaved body shouldn't be any problem for a doctor or nurse... Still wearing the chastity device could raise some eyebrows and questions... but mostly that won't even be a problem... Rope / cuff marks, whip marks, bruises etc can raise serious questions. At that point it depends on the doctors openminded feelings... in that case be honest, explain etc. If needed have one-on-one sessions with the doctor (you and partner) to explain your relationship and kinks.
     
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    Thanks
    Worse I called and asked if they were alt lifestyle friendly before I booked the appointment.

    She had good reviews so that really made it annoying.
    Worse she was only interested in me getting a colonoscopy and didn’t care about other issues I was having.

    I’ve since moved and now have an amazing Dr. she’s very caring. And has handed me lots of condoms when we’ve talked about my bisuality.
     
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    I have to agree with everyone else. No need to worry. My dermatologist has me naked except for panties so she can check all my skin over. She has never said a word about my being smooth, my panties, my red toe nails, or my tats.
     
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    Thanks to all. I fell better about it now.
     
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    Nope, never had anyone ask or even refer to it. I have had EKG's done and they generally like it smooth and are happy they don't have to shave anything.
     
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    Coincidentally I have my annual checkup later this week and am unsure whether to ask my Wife if I may be unlocked
    ii nformed my doctor about being in chastity years ago when my Wife and I first tried it out for a short while but I have not worn my cage to a regular checkup yet and I feel a bit embarrassed and reluctant to impose my kink on my doctor ( I have worn it to specialists when I keep my pants on)
    I guess the answer is easy and that is to adk my Wife for Her instructions
     
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    Might not sound like as much fun as asking your wife for her instructions, but FWIW I would spare the doc what could be an uncomfortable situation for him or her.

    Jamie
     
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    I wouldn't wear the cage. Keep the kink at home.
     
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    I’ve been experimenting with shaving my pubic are for years even when I use to work we’re man men showered together and a lot of people say that I was shaved smooth. No one has ever said anything to me about it. Possibly people are worried about things like sexual harassment so the just say nothing.

    If your Doctor was to comment about something as simple as your choice of underwear , body hair or a tattoo they could also be on the edge of harassing you . I think Doctors are a lot more Professional than that and as long as your way of life doesn’t get in the way of them doing their job ( like your cage) I don’t think it’ll ever be an issue.

    That’s my 2 cents worth.
     
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    Let me pose my question a different way:
    Would my doctor want to see me wearing the device so he could be more diligent in his exam of me?
     
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    I think it’s a good thing for your doc to know about, but no need for her/him to see it unless there are specific concerns about it.
     
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    I agree and I have no specific concerns
    Thanks to all
     
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    This is a hard discussion you have to have with your doctor.
    I’d be surprised if they weren’t aware of chastity devices. The question is how kink friendly and how up to date are they.

    Personally I refuse to see a doctor that isn’t at least accepting of my lifestyle and kinks. Now that doesn’t mean I have to push them on them, simply that we can discuss how it affects my health. So I’d suggest you think about that and what it means to you and your ability to communicate with them and how it impacts your health.
     
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    Thanks man. This lifestyle is still a little new to me . Only a year and 1 week now. Getting the hang of it.
     
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    I told my doctor about it years ago when I was first in chastity for a brief time.. He was professional. We actually had a good chat about it . But I have never worn it while being examined.
     
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    Whay changed more recently is thatt my Wife doesn't like it when i ask to be unlocked for any reason
     
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    As I posted in my status yesterday, I inadvertently went to the doctor for a physical yesterday with my cage on. I had thought about it in advance (a day or two earlier), but wasn't too concerned (apparently!) and forgot to ask my wife to unlock me yesterday morning.

    It was a tad stressful because she was a new doc for me (and female), but I'm not ashamed of my chastity, and I expect docs to have seen everything and to be professional about their patients' life choices.

    When she told me she was about to do a testicular exam, I alerted her I was wearing a chastity device. She said "ok" without batting an eye, and didn't display any reaction while I had my briefs down and she was manually examining my balls for lumps. I felt at ease, and it was a quick, successful test of whether I felt like I could have an honest, trusting relationship with her as my new primary care physician. If you *can't* trust yourself to reveal details, and trust your doc to handle them professionally, that could be a problem down the road.

    (Amusing sidebar: when she told me I should have a testicular exam, she asked if I preferred a male doctor to come in and do it -- I said no. Then she asked if I wanted a chaperone in the room! Never been asked that by a doc before (I usually have female PCPs -- my wife and I like sharing a doc and she's more comfortable with a female). This was just before I told her about the chastity device, and I was thinking "jeepers, no, I don't want to show *two* people!")
     
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    My dermatologist has never blinked about me being shaved. It probably made her job easier.

    Once I went to see her about eczema on my hand. My wife asked if I wanted to be unlocked and I said there's no need as she'll only look at my hand. The doctor gave my hand a quick look over, then checked her records and said I hadn't seen her for a long time so she needed to do a full check. She let me keep my underwear on that time so I narrowly avoided seeing her reaction to my cage.
     
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