Definition of and percentage of us in long-term denial?

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    #1 CZSteve, Nov 8, 2021
    Just a curiosity and no real way to really confirm but wondering what percentage of us are in long-term denial.
    1. What is your definition of long-term denial?
    2. How long ago since you were allowed / deliberately given a real Orgasm?
    My Definition is that long-term starts at 6-months. No idea why I have this length of time in my head, but I do.

    My last intentional real Orgasm was September 22nd, 2018; the night before I was heading away for a week-long business trip.

    Since that September night in 2018 I've had a couple times when I went a little too far during a Ruined-o attempt that gave me a taste of a real-O but NOT anything that had that 'immediate' satisfaction of a Real-O.

    This past year and again in September I was scheduled to be away for another several day business trip that would require flying and thus access to being uncaged. My Goddess @n2toys intended to give me Full-O with Post-O Torture just before my trip; She figured much better to be have my libido deflated as much as possible while away and uncaged. However, this trip was canceled and thus still under Her lock-and-key and denied.

    Please do NOT get me wrong, I LOVE being denied and kept INSANELY HORNY but at 3+ years I do occasionally yearn to experience a Real-Orgasm again. My Goddess' response is always Never-Say-Never but I don't have a current plan for you at this time. I have requested two or three things if allowed to be given a Real-O: 1) To not be hooded so I can see My Goddess 2) to have to endure Post-Orgasm Torture for as long as my Goddess desires without the freedom of my 'Safe-Word' and 3) to be securely bound which is pretty much a requirement if I'm to receive POT.

    Who else here is long-term and what our your thoughts and/or emotions as a result?
     
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    #2 Chaste J., Nov 8, 2021
    If you were used to having an orgasm everyday, then a week or two would be pretty long term I suppose! :)​
     
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    #3 jemima, Nov 8, 2021
    yes i think as well that men that not been lock up in a cage before then doing say 3 days is long time for them but after that then it get longer and longer and when it say 3 week its good they can do that and then it get a bit more easy for them to do months. but a lot of men always wanting to make mess a lot and i spose it harder for them then.
     
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    #6 true42, Nov 9, 2021
    Anything over 2 days is long term denial.

    It would seem that I'm constantly in long term denial :)
     
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    #7 Turma, Nov 9, 2021
    The definitions are fluid. The last time my wife let me experience a "real" orgasm was in June this year. Since then only milking and other niceties.

    This month, of course, nothing and in December will show whether I may again at Christmas.

    So ... I would say 3-4 months.
     
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    #8 Tom Allen, Nov 9, 2021
    Long term is probably a moving target for a lot of us. When Mrs Edge and I first got into it, a month was a good goal. Later, a month wasn't even a warm up, as 3 to 6 month stints were pretty common for us.
     
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    #9 JaySaysYes, Nov 9, 2021
    I agree with that. At first 3 days was maddeningly long, and then a week, and then 4 weeks. Now we are 5 to six weeks but my KH has openly addmitted she wants tyo do months, and that seems like a stupidly impossible idea.
     
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    #10 bondinchas, Nov 9, 2021
    Stupidly impossible to you maybe, but I'm sure she sees it as perfectly viable.
     
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    #11 SubSnuggler, Nov 9, 2021
    I would put the lower limit on 'long-term' at 6 months. I've never gone anywhere near that long, I think my record is 4-5 weeks
     
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    #12 Queens servant73, Nov 9, 2021
    For me, 3-4 weeks is long term, but up until the cage started getting used somewhat seriously last year, my Wife and I had sex 7-10 times a week on an average week, vacations or extra days off would add to that total. We’re now on a routine, I get piv and orgasms on weekend nights only, and locked all the time except for those 2 piv sessions. She of course gets all the orgasms she desires, so she’s still around 7-10 a week lol
     
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    #13 Guest 3286, Nov 9, 2021
    I’d say 1 hour was long term, maybe I have a problem.
     
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    #14 madams-sissysub, Nov 10, 2021
    I would say I am in long term denial, I have not been allowed piv or any form of penile stimulation for many years now. I am allowed out regular for hygiene,? But that’s it. However I am permitted anal stimulation regularly.
     
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    #15 Doczilla421, Nov 12, 2021
    Been locked up since nov 15th 2017. Totally denial since July 31st 2018. My wife says I'm permanently lock and I'm never haveing an orgasm again.
     
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    #16 Munchkin_dick, Nov 12, 2021
    I normally masturbate 3-4 times a day... so anything over 6 hours beings driving me up the wall... though ive gone 9 months locked up before.

    All depends on you...
     
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