Men using strap ons on female partners

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    What do we think (esp from female perspective) about men using a strap on to penetrate his female partner? This could be because of impotence, or chastity.
     
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    We do this often and enjoy it.
     
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    From a woman's perspective, do you find it as satisfying as a real penis, or is it more about his submission and humiliation?
     
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    We use a masterpiece, which feels very natural and it is about the size of my husband.
    https://vixencreations.com/products/mustang

    It is evenly satisfying. The wider base does a great job. I am just not feeling his balls touching me but his covered cage instead.
     
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    Absolutely nothing wrong with that!
     
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    My wife really enjoys it as well, I can just keep going ang going. Sometimes she seems to forget that is not me inside her.
     
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    Would this work for a man suffering impotence in a vanilla relationship, or would most women be weirded out by it?
     
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    Most probably.
    The strapon we are using is available in a variant with two holes, one for the dildo and one for the penis. This offers many options like penetration with the dildo but feeling the penis as well.
     
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    Hoping to experience the for the first time during our holiday this week. I'll report back when/if it happens.
     
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    flippin expensive $135
     
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    Is 'Flippin' a UK only expression? Never heard it from our friends over the ocean.

    Along the same lines as a Fanny Pack.
     
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    My Madam isn’t keen on dildos, she much prefers the real thing and has 2 of them to choose from while im locked.
     
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    As long as there’s enough lube, the dildo is shaped well, and the man obeys me on how to use it properly I find it delightful.
     
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    We tried it once and I didn't care for it. I wound up not missing PIV as much as I thought I would, so we never looked for a different/better dildo.
     
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    We’ve just started using one on occasion. She says it doesn’t compare to the real thing (thankfully) but when she wants to keep me locked or torture me for a bit it does the job.
     
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    That pretty much says it for me. My wife loves being penetrated, but also enjoys keeping me locked for weeks or months, so she has me strap on once or twice a month. But she prefers the real thing, so lately she’s been uncaging me more often but having me suit up with numbing cream inside a condom and instructing me not to cum.
     
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    It's frustrating, but whatever the Queen wants, she gets.

    The only part that pleasures me is when I accidentally have a full blown orgasm without even touching my clit.

    When that happens, it is the strongest orgasm I have
     

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    We also have mustang, as well as the maverick, maverick was too big but Mustang was just right, that said we have only used it once.

    I think my partner just likes the real thing, and has moved away from the denial thing for now (apart from me being locked )

    These things are subject to change without notice however.

    I love to think about it still and at the same time fear it lol
     
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    I don’t get piv anymore, been over 500 days without. We have Realcock 2: https://www.realdoll.com/product/realcock-2-rockwell/

    it is a piece of art. Yes, expensive, but easily most realistic and best feeling dildo I have ever seen. And she deserves the best. Also, if we are mainly/only using that for sex, it is not that expensive if you think about it. It is not an occasional toy to use, but something regular. Probably trying cuckolding in future when it comes to real thing.

    Bought that RC2 from black friday sale some years ago, was on -15% to -20% sale, don’t remember exactly. But has been worth every penny. Total mindfuck also to use it in doggy-style position, seeing it going in and out, because it looks so real. She has said it feels great and she gets off much harder with it than ever did with my penis. But I can see that myself too. An honest truth.

    We have also Vixen Bandit. It is very good, in our opinion Realcock is just the best.
     
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    Wow, thats expensive too
     
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    oooh! i dunt know what a fanny pack is, sounds like a bum bag that you wear round your waist on holiday!
    flippin eck....means "greatly surprised" i guess
     
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    Often called "Foxing" (from fucking with a faux cock), it can be amazing if you take your time and buy good quality equipment.

    Here are a few threads:
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...-on-for-me-to-wear-for-her.38640/#post-412761

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for.../making-a-dildo-feel-nicer.48696/#post-568692

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...a-strap-on-to-pleasure-her.48567/#post-566980

    Also, search for "Vixskin" because I and a few others here have mentioned in on that context. It's a very realistic and high quality dildo line.

    My wife and I have practiced this pretty much since we started getting into keeping me locked, twenty five years ago. For the past six years, I have been locked permanently, and foxing is the only way way have sex. My wife doesn't even call it that anymore, because in her mindset, the Vixskin Ranger *is* my real penis now.
     
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    a Feeldoe in the man ass is a best solutions for her and for prostate stimulation. My wife like a lot see me drip from the top of the cage
     
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    I have a cheap full belt called the Protector which we use for short term play, not comfortable for long term. But one thing we do use it for is attaching a dildo. I drilled a hole in the bar that goes between the belt and the tube and threaded this to take a Vaculok adapter and after trying a few different dildos I have ended up with the "Realistic Kong" around 9½" long and quite wide, it is somewhat larger than I am and my wife really enjoys it. The full belt creates a sturdy base for the dildo and I get a small amount of feeling within the tube which makes be incredibly horny and frustrated.

    Protector 1.jpg Protector 2.jpg Protector 3.jpg Protector 4.jpg
     
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    Wow that is an impressive looking unit, its dimensions would actually be ideal for my partner being in between the vixskin Mustang and the Maveric.

    If my partner was more into cock substitution I'd definitely spend the money, alas it would be a very expensive thing to try once only...lol...the vixskins were not cheap alas and only used once :(.

    Of course the fear of being permanently replaced is both intoxicating and frightening lol.
     
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