Is a chastity man allowed to look at porn or is it forbidden without the Keyholder's permission? Personally, watching porn makes me even more frustrated and more engaged in wanting to please her. Even though I know I probably won't be let out or allowed to cum anyway, the drive is kept alive, so to speak. I would love to hear what the Keyholders here recommend.
I am allowed to collect vintage adult school uniform fetish magazines. I can look at them and that’s it. No other porn allowed
There is no right or wrong answer. It depends on your own dynamic. I agree it spices it up, but what turns me on is more vanilla than before I considered chastity.
The problem may be in the question. Chastity Mansion is a site about [some aspects of] the body. A lot of emphasis is placed on learning about chastity (devices, relationships, practices, etc.) While porn is quite rightly associated with men jerking off and unreal portrayals of relationships, it's also a place for learning. I've learned a great deal about human sexuality from porn, regardless of the kind of source: literary, photographic, fiction, video, and so on. As long as one views or reads it with critical awareness -- that is, as long as you take it with a "grain of salt," it has instructional benefits. Can viewers become obsessed about it and later adopt a practice of chastity to limit their masturbation? Sure, of course. I view the content of CM as somewhere on a wide spectrum that includes contemporary porn, non-fiction books about romance and sex, fiction (on the same topics), medical websites, classical art etc. Occasionally I have learned something from all these sources.
It's forbidden. She has monitoring on my phone and computer. Violations would cause severe punishment. This includes her oversight of my CM postings and activities.
There's no problem with the question. If you think this site isn't substantially pornographic then you are likely in denial or just trying to convince yourself. Is there discussion? Yes... about dicks and sex and orgasms (or lack thereof). Is there helpful information? Yes (see previous aside). Are there sexy photos? Yes. Are there sexy videos? Yes. And on and on. Just because you learned something doesn't change anything here. I am not complaining one bit, I love this site, but come on now.
Probably for some it might be considered porn but my reason for going was to find out more about male chastity and how it benefits both people in a relationship
greetings ....a nationally renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Victor Cline specializing in porn addiction concluded pornography addiction is a process that undergoes 4 phases. perhaps i should first give a definition of addiction aware others might disagree or have a different outlook than i do. i think addiction is something one can't stop on their own. they've turned their will over to an external source that controls their psychology and biology whether acknowledging or not their biology ultimately becomes their biography. the studies first phase says... is addiction resulting from early and repeated exposure accompanied by masturbation...2nd phase escalation the addict requires more frequent porn exposure to achieve the same 'high' and may learn to prefer porn to actual sexual intercourse. not in the study i would add the person begins incorporating the activity into their daily life consciously or unconsciously scheduling viewing time....that can go on for hours. the studies 3rd phase...desensitization during which the addict views as normal what was once considered repulsive or immoral. ( tho i have my own theory 'that normal people aren't normal either.) it would seem to me it is during this one has moved from an initial curiosity into a compulsion where they forgo participating in activities such as with family or friends preferring instead to spend vast stretches of their time in front of a screen. the 4th being the 'acting out 'phase during which the addict runs the risk of making the leap from screen to real life. this behavior may manifest itself in the form of promiscuity, voyeurism, exhibitionism, group sex, bdsm interests etc. i would add having stretched the boundaries of what they once considered normal a desire builds to experience their particular fetish-interest in real life. i express the above free of any moral judgement on my part. stats on pornhub: 2019 - 42 billion visits for an average of 115 million per day. 2020 - 2. 4 billion visits on average each month....actually Xvideos.com ranks higher with 3.1 billion. just thought i'd throw my 2 cents worth in on the topic before i head over to check out my page on Fetlife where there are over 10,000,000+ members. peace, alyssa Pornhub 2019 Year In Review Report: More Porn, More Often https://www.forbes.com › sites › curtissilver › 2019/12/11 Dec 11, 2019 — There were 42 billion visits to Pornhub this year. That's the answer. It breaks down to 115 million per day. Turns out Pornhub gets more visitors per month than Netflix ... https://happymag.tv › News Aug 3, 2020 — Pornhub just scrapes in, taking out the tenth spot with a whopping 2.404 billion visits on average each month. .
With my ex it wasn't allowed whenever, I had to ask and it was only on occasion for a limited amount of time. I think it was an interesting dynamic.
Definition of porn is “you know it when you see it”. I don’t see this site as porn. But I’m also not digging for pictures, videos or fictional stories. I come here to learn things about chastity, new cage designs, provide a helpful tip here or there. Maybe offer some encouragement to some starting their journey.
I am allowed to watch as much porn as I wish but it must involve submissive cuckolds. My wife believes that it will reinforce my identity.
We still cuddle together in front of the tv streaming some very entertaining soft porn with a nice romantic story line.. its very empowering to the women where center of attention revolves around the pleasure of women and how men are really gentlemen.. ok, occasionally being bad boys could be appealing to women.. but its uplifting to any couple and not downright demeaning to women ie gang-bang, cumshots, creampie, cougar, milf, step sis/mother, bukkake, hentai.. ect. You get what i mean.. ok, wait.. CM is porn? Well, it has adult content, its a basically a forum, full of words, very little pics.. but still 30k penis pictures as someone mentioned somwehere.. very engaging, thought provoking, challenges societal norms.. its all in the mind… some men can ejaculate in front of a novel.. some just have to do it over a screen showing bbc orgies…
If she can't provide a satisfying sex life however you define it then she shouldn't have any say in viewing porn. She isn't doing her job. If you don't have any food in the house should you starve or go out to the store?
My wife asked me what desire is. I had all the wrong answers, so Googled. I have a better understanding Does looking at porn change your desire for your partner or promote unrealistic expectations? My thought, if your cock is locked, then your partner should be getting something in return. Don't have to a crazy horn dog, but I don't believed it's all about house chores. What I have read from keyholder forun "they enjoy the face of desire, the physical, emotional control, which in turns makes the sub deeply desire there dom ". Which is were orgasam denial comes into play. Person cums desire lost Person denied desire increases Teasing increases the desire I feel that porn "viewing" is up to the dynamic of the relationship. I have found that even through not masterbateing and lock can take away from my desire for my wife, reading all those mems provide for some a unrealistic expectations and were not all photo shop, perfect lighting and in our 20s Ask your partner to send you some pics to view or dress/reveal some skin time to time
Smile how nice it is to see how many different answers are given ..... ;-) and yes what is porn for you may not be porn for me or vice versa ... But I have to watch porn and go to BDSM / Fetish party's .... was professional for BDSM / Fetish party yesterday with 500 people in latex lacquer and everything else that comes inside something like that and there were many who had sex .... I then greeted My Mistress but we were not there together .... So everything is legal ... as long as I keep my diary and tell a little about the course of the day, the Mistress is happy
I actually have lost interest in most porn (except some chastity captions on tumblr) after being locked in chastity. My wife originally said she would prefer me looking at porn and masturbating instead of using chastity cage, but that has changed and I think she wishes I was a nullo)