Day 32. Ever since Beth wanted to extend my then 37 days to 60, I keep waiting for the panic to set in. It really hadn't. Except for some painful morning wood, sporadic horniness and a little leaking, I'm holding up fine. Our relationship is still in better shape than it's ever been and I fell happier and more energetic than ever! I wouldn't trade it for anything at this moment, but we'll see. After the third week it has gotten much easier. Anyone else have similar experiences at this point?
it tends to be up and down. A few days when you think "this is easy" followed by a few when you realise it isn't. And repeat...
I'm glad to hear things are going well. The first 2-3 weeks have always been hardest for me. Once I have a couple weeks under my belt (or in my cage), it gets much easier. I just tell myself that in order to have an O, I have to climb down off this cloud I'm floating on. Since I really don't want to abandon this lovely cloud, I'll stay a while longer.
Maybe I'm the minority here. First couple weeks for me a relatively easy. After week 3 I feel like a horny teenager again. Every little thing sets me off. I'm in a constant state of arousal, and the only thing on my mind is my Wife/Mistress.
To be sure I feel an elevated arousal level (though I'm not sure I would classify it as horney teenager levels just yet). I have an understanding of how this works for my own body. I'm pretty sure It probably works much the same for most people. That elevated arousal level I feel is a result of Dopamine and Oxytocin levels in my system being higher (maybe much higher) than normal. It can be built up to pre-orgasm levels and held there for long periods of time. I also understand that Orgasm releases prolactin which purges both Dopamine and Oxytocin from my system. I'm currently flying high (and aroused) on a bubble of dopamine and oxytocin. And an Orgasm comes with the prolactin needle that will pop that bubble. THAT is the understanding that makes it easier for me after 2-3 weeks to want to avoid an Orgasm.
For me it was the 3rd week that was the killer, I was extremely frustrated and in a terrible mood, but it was at this point my madam allowed me anal stimulation to pleasure my self, so I was permitted Akins if relief.
For my longer chaste periods, I just sort of settle in after the first week. Sometimes the urge or need to cum hits hard, but generally I can make it through until its time. Good luck, sounds like you are doing well.
You can make it! Think about what it has done for your relationship so far. Use that as motivation. Come back to us for immoral support if you need to. BTW, I'm with you, I don't plan to unlock again before 2020