Hello everybody! Does anybody know a fancy symbol for FLR and/or Chastity. We are considering to get a partner tatoo related to that. I would be thankfull if you could post some links or pics with suggestions!
Hiya, I don't know if there is actually "one" symbol for a FLR. Be interesting to see if anyone else comments. But for my wife (Mistress) I think it's shown in different ways. In her mannerisms and gestures when we are out together. There is the obvious one like wearing the key to your device. Julie sometimes will wear a key on a dainty ankle chain around her ankle, or maybe sometimes around her neck. It is not always the actual key to my device, but a key none the less. Worn as a symbol to remind me of who is in charge . There was an instant in the supermarket where I am always expected to load the shopping on to the checkout conveyor while Julie always makes a B line to chat with the checkout guy who has worked there for years. She openly flirts with him just out of hear shot. She once got hold of the key around her neck and showed it to the checkout guy and said something to him. and they both looked over at me and laughed. And Julie waved her little finger in the air and they both laughed again. I am then expected to reload the trolley and she clicks her finger and says "Pay the man" and totters of in usually 5 or 6 inch heels to the car. She always turns and gives the checkout guy a wave and usually blows him a kiss. I have to push the trolley behind her and open the car door and hold her hand to help her into the car. Then take the trolley back and usually she is repainting her lips. We drive off and not a word is spoken. To her it's all about the control, some humiliation, which I know she loves. But like I say, for us, the way she acts and the confidence it gives her is what people notice. Having her finger nails usually around 3 to 4 inches long gets her comments. People ask her how she can do things with nails that long? She replies "I dont, I have him to do that" and points at me. On holiday in the Caribbean we were in the pool, and one American lady asked her "How do you wipe your bum"? Julie just looked at me and laughed. The poor woman did not know where to put her face
Iconography is badly lacking in Femdom culture, but the most common / enduring, is key for the Mistress and a lock for the sub.
I went and looked in all of my usual little mainstream porn outlets (Tumblr, Pinterest, Google images) and was fairly surprised to find so few male/female symbols for FLR. It's quite an elusive thing, interestingly enough. I found a couple of pics that intrigued me. Being tattooed as part of your FLR really intrigues me. For years I have looked at images of chastized little sissies like me that as part of it, agree even to be marked by her Domme for life. That's how deep it goes. I usually add in temporary tattoos when I want to go deeper into it, or am appearing in public. I find myself intoxicated by the idea. Anyway, I found a few I liked, in more of the traditional male/female symbols. I know you are looking for ideas and these aren't really them, I just enjoyed the search a bit, so thank you. I found it intrigues me quite a bit more than I originally thought. If I find anything else I will throw it up there just for fun.
Hi I've written about this before, but I had made a silver necklace that would translate into a really cute tattoo. It consists of a fairly thin silver ring, that encloses a same-guage silver heart (connected at three points: bottom and two highest points of the heart). Inside that is a solid-silver, stylised, keyhole shape. My Wife / KH wears it all the time around her neck. Over the years a number of people have asked her, in or out of my presence, what it signifies and she just tells them I had it made and that 'I hold the key to his heart'. No one's ever pushed harder !
Red Chilli makes a chastity device with a FLR symbol integrated into the cage. https://malechastity-devices.com/index.php/ezada-s-control-cage