Does chastity reduce ability to get an erection

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    There is an endless sea of fantasy out there describing the effects of chastity and dick size etc. I'd like to shrare what I think I am experiencing, and would be interested in other s- real - experiences

    I am being held in chastity at least 3 days a month, but sometimes several weeks in one go. While these longer stretches do not reduce my interest in sex (self-gratifiction or with a partner) at all, I have the impression that my ability to have an erection is reduced considerably, at least for the first 1-2 weeks after I have been unlocked. This may be entirely psychological, but the effect seems to be there nevertheless.

    Really curios if any of you has similar or totally different experiences.
     
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    No. My wife unlocks me and I'm ready nearly without any foreplay.

    I did have one episode where my brain got in the way and erections didn't happen when they were supposed to but it was fine after 10 days.

    No... excitement, erections and general function are fine after years of being caged.
     
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    Nope…
    I will say it’s good to have your keyholder let you out routinely for a good hard erection to “stretch” but that’s mostly for the temp shrinkage issues…that’s temporary for sure. I “have” had a less than good erection after a long time in but that’s kind of a “muscle memory” thing from the cage affecting things…or at least in our case. It doesn’t start that way and with just a little more stimulation I’m hard as I ever was and nonissues staying that way.
     
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    According to your profile, you are 56 years old. My guess would be that your age is having a far more significant impact on the abilities of your cock than chastity is.
     
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    Thanks for the feedback, and good to know its not a mainstream effect. @LockedTower, yes I guess age plays a role ;-) but there seems to be a notable difference. But not lasting or not a trend apparently (unless somebody has different experiences)
     
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    No impact for me. Longest lockup/denial period has been 3 months. At my age (58) Viagra is a regular thing, so maybe that negates the “no impact” comment!
     
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    Any effect will be temporary. Age-related effects, sadly, are permanent.
     
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    My first erection after being locked 365 days was as strong as ever before. So chastity had no effect on me in that way.
     
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    My experience was that after 8 months of being locked, I couldn't get hard enough for penetration. But that only last less than a day and then things were back to normal.
     
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    I do think chastity has more of an impact as you age. The two work together to reduce how quickly you recover from the imprisonment and are able to go.
     
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    @MissyB, that is my impression as well. I observe there there is a definite period after some weeks of being locked, where I find it hard to get hard (uhm). This period seems to last a week or so. It my be however that this is because I think it is.

    Thanks also @Shepherdsflock for sharing your experience
     
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    In my case, it's not a real issue, because i no longer have penetrative sex. so being soft for a while is okay..
     
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    it kind of is an interesting effect, as it extends the effect chastity has. In other words, even when getting unlocked after weeks, there is a concern that it will be for no good, and then soon after i might get locked up again
     
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    my cage starts to get full just from her touching the cage to check her security seal numbers. She unlocks and does a wellness check and a deep clean once a week and it is ready. Im 56 and for me the longer i am locked the more difficult it NOT to get an erection.
     
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    This is always an interesting topic.

    We all seem to experience different things as a result of our chastity sessions. There are so many variables involved: age, length of lockup, physical health, ED issues, medications, KeyHolder's Involvement and desires, to name a few. So I guess it's expected to find numerous experiences amongst us.

    For me, I'm 61, have been having ED and low T issues for a while now. We've been practicing chastity off and on for several decades (back into the 90's), getting more serious about it with the last 5 years or so. On April 10, 2020, we entered into our current situation: I'm locked 24/7, no orgasms for me at all, and we're working toward including more FLR aspects in our marriage. When I look at the (large) size of some of my first cages and remember filling them with my erection and straining against them, it's almost comical. The cages I've used the past 5 or 6 years or so are much smaller and even if I get aroused, my cock barely fills them. The NC03 in my avatar fits nicely with a bit of room to spare when I'm soft, and when I try to get erect, it keeps me in check quite easily. Especially if there are any spikes installed at the time. Which I'll talk about a bit later.

    My Wife rarely lets me out of my cage, and when She does, it's usually just for teasing/torment that She can't do while I'm wearing the cage, then I'm locked right back up again. The last time, She tried teasing me by giving me a blowjob, and while Her mouth felt fantastic around my cock, I did not get very hard and only half-filled Her mouth. In the old days, I could push it in deep enough so She couldn't breathe and She would panic as I held Her head on my shaft. NO danger of that the last time. She even joked about how small my dick is now and that it was fun to orally tease me knowing that I could not "hurt" her while She did it.

    We then tried PIV, but there was not enough stiffness there to even push into Her. So She locked me back up and we proceeded with our regular play. While I won't go into Her medical issues, suffice it to say that the effects of age have taken a bit of a toll on Her as well, and She is not very interested in getting "pounded"...as we would put it many years ago. So proper and careful use of several dildoes (which She has named) do a good job of satisfying Her when She does have a desire to feel "filled" in one or more of Her beautiful holes. And I get to assist these large dicks to find their way inside Her, much like they were Her lovers. She enjoys it and it helps satiate my desire to be cuckolded by Her. So again, not much motivation here for ME to be able to get large again.

    I had mentioned the spikes up above. I can tell you that one of the torments my Lovely Wife likes to put me through is to have me insert several of the spikes and then She teases me into erection, causing my cock to grow into the points. Now, MY point (pun intended), is that while She is doing that, I believe I'm being "conditioned" to NOT get erect, or at least "as erect" when being teased, in order to prevent the discomfort & downright pain of the spikes pressing into my cock. Now, is that really happening? Who knows, it's not a scientific study by ANY means. But conditioning can be used to change behavior, so it IS possible that being teased and tormented while wearing those spikes might be conditioning my body to NOT get erect when being stimulated. Just a thought. That said...I still do....or try to...but that's within the confines of a very small cage. I don't seem to grow much bigger than that when I'm let out of the cage, even when using Viagara or Cialis, so perhaps there is some conditioning going on? Which brings me to....

    I have, on occasion, taken a Viagara or Cialis, so that She would have a bit more to play with. LOL With either, I DO notice that I seem to get a bit more erect and the semi-erection doesn't seem to be lost quite as quickly. But I don't get a full erection the way I used to, and the semi-erection time is still only measured in time intervals of about 10 minutes or so after the teasing ends. If She resumes the stimulation, I do start getting aroused again. But nothing like what used to be 5+ years ago. (By the way, the side effects of both V and C rarely make it worth while for me to take them frequently, but I WILL do it if She requests it. Headaches, stuffiness, back/muscle aches for a day or two afterward are usually only worth the price IF I KNOW my Lovely Wife wishes to tease and torment me to some more extreme levels. ;))

    So as I said, there are LOTS of variables involved. Now, IF we gave up the chastity and I sought medical help for the ED and low T issues, I might be able to return to my former hardness and size. To be honest, I really don't know.

    Truth is, we really BOTH enjoy the direction our love making has headed since we implemented full-time chastity and FLR aspects into our lives. We are FAR more intimate with each other now than we ever were in our 40+ years of being together. I believe that is mostly due to the fact that I used to masturbate frequently, on average, 3 times a day, during most of my life, right up until we started this full-time chastity venture. I know now that my pre-occupation with porn and masturbation sapped away energy & attention that I should have been using to love and worship my Wife. Being locked up by Her 24/7 released me from that distraction, and I feel so much better now. Her sexual happiness is all I think about, and I get MY sexual happiness by sharing the intensity of Her orgasm. Do I still look at porn? Sure, but I have NO desire to masturbate at all. I want to save my desires and energy for my wife.

    OK, long way around to answer the question, I guess. But whether or not the chastity has contributed to my current state of ED really isn't the issue. We have no desire to change things. She is reveling in the additional attention, I LOVE the fact that when we are sexual, I KNOW it's because SHE wants to be with me. All I have to do is be there to help Her achieve Her desires and goals for the experience. As I like to call myself, I'm now Her "Orgasm Assistant", and I LOVE that description and being in that role.

    As for age, especially for those who are engaged in longer term lock-ups of months and years, it is quite possible that multiple mechanisms are in play which include several of the aspect I've discussed. For me, I know it's a combination of the age, the ED, the psychological conditioning of being lock 24/7, and just my desire to please My Wife and Keyholder. We like where we are, there's no real reason to try to change anything, so there is no WILL to try to get my erections back to their pre 24/7 chastity size and hardness.

    Thanks for listening.

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    Yes it does, unfortunately
     
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    good written
     
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    @subrick thank you for sharing your experience. Very well written. And good luck with you being your wifes orgasm assistant - I like that term very much ;-)
     
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    Using a cage definitely impacts my erection, even after the cage is off.

    We've been doing this for years, but the whole time I have continued to age physically, so who knows how much of the change is just from age.

    (Cycling, i.e. long distance bicycling, has a much worse "impact".)

    It may also be psychological. The cage definitely alters something in the brain, at least for me. Sex is no longer about me getting hard and fucking until I have an orgasm then rolling off and going to sleep. (Gee, when I put it that way, it really doesn't sound that amazing.)

    Sex is now about us, and about her. And I'm cool with that.
     
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    Exactly one of the points I was trying to make...but you did it much more succinctly! Thank you. :)

    ~subrick
     
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    After several months of lock up, it feels hard in my dick, it feels so hard that it hurts almost, but when I reach down to help guide it in it is semi hard at best.

    I can still cum within seconds of entry, it’s just not rock hard even though it feels like it is. I’m fairly certain this is due to the capillaries not getting stretched on a regular basis. The blood is flowing, but the sponge isn’t swelling to fully expand. If I’m left unlocked for awhile, get hard, and stretch everything out, it would return and has.

    It will return to its former size and hardness, I however am rarely unlocked long enough for that to happen, so in a way it’s modified to be smaller and softer. Nothing that wouldn’t return to normal given some freedom however. In fact I sometimes try to weasel to stay unlocked hoping for a round 2, that first one is so quick, and many times almost hurts getting hard. I am always trying to see if I can get another in to have an O without the quickness and sensitivity.
     
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    thought i suffer from minor erectile dysfunction when i was younger. realized i never was sexually attracted to the women, eventhough they have been nice and physically attractive. having a girlfriend now. chastity is an important part of our relationship for both of us. i think i have better and stronger erections now, that also last longer. but i wouldn't say it's because i spend so much time locked up. i guess it is because i have really strong emotional bond with her and feel attracted to her sexually, physically, mentally.

    i know that as well. sometimes it happens, that my queen plays with and teases her property. it feels as if i have a rock hard erection, but it actually is in that medium-hard state. definitely not flaccid and it is in working condition.
     
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    After a period of caged denial, I get half way there (semi hard). But after a single night and the typical rounds of night swells, the next morning I am back to normal and straight up.
    But I am new to this (only about a year)
     
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    Kind of the same here, takes a few hours out of chastity, till I an able to get a full erection to.
     
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