Hello! My wife and I are in our late 20s and have been happily together for a most of our adult lives. We've been playing on and off with Chastity for years. Often we would play and tease for a few days or a week, I would cum, and then we'd call it. This was always fun but I've always been fascinated with it long term. This January we had our longest streak lasting the entire month. I realized how much of a two way street it is and that it required me to enforce it on myself at times. I also realized how critical it was to shift my focus away from my locked self to her. I think earlier sessions we're often selfishly driven. After 2 weeks my wife said she really loved it and wants this to be our lifestyle. I couldn't agree more! We took a break last month on a long vacation but now we're officially back on. We're also trying to start a family so cumming is important! We've decided to try and only have me cum while she is ovulating. I'm really excited to try this and continue to challenge my energy to her.
You do sound excited and It is always fun when you have your spouse on the same page as you. Good luck.
We didn't do any sort of playing this week. The world has been pretty stressed out and we're in the midst of it. I didn't help by not taking action on the cage. She brought it up mid week and we both agreed it's just been a crazy time. This morning we played and had a fantastic quickie. We made out intensely and I used her favorite magic wand to bring her to two very powerful, overdue orgasms. Afterwards she stroked me which felt incredible after a week away. She then rode me until she realized I was so sensitive and said that's it for today. We did our normal Saturday days and are having a party tonight at our house. I just locked up and put the key in her pocket for the night.
Wow!! This sounds like a fantastic journey. Have a great time and enjoy the positive effect it has on your relationship. .
FYI, I think I read somewhere that after 5 days, our swimmers lose some mobility. Might suggest that the first orgasm after a long lock up not be your primary source for trying to conceive.
It's been a crazy time in the world lately, but there is always good news in the mix. We stuck to the plan and it worked: We were successful in conceiving and are expecting at the end of the year! We wouldn't have minded to try for a few more cycles - but we're extremely happy and everything has been going very well. The changing times (globally and in our lives) put things on hold but I'm sure we'll circle back.
Congratulations!!! That is wonderful news. I wish you and your wife so much happiness and joy with the new addition to your lives!
And now we're circling back!e We are in the depths of at least a month long session, but potentially much longer. Since we started a few weeks ago, we've been having amazing sex, long sessions with orgasm after orgasm for her and ultimately deinal for me. This is probably the most sex we've ever had in a dense period of time, not that we were slotches before. Today she told me she really gets chasity now and said we will use the same method to conceive again, but not for a few months. She also said "I want you to have a wet dream" while I was inside of her which made it very hard to hang on! I'm currently about half way in a 2 week denial as punishment because I masturbated while she was out of town for the weekend. She's been extremely firm with that and I'm loving every minute.