The road to chastity of a young male

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    I’m a 23 yo male starting a new chaste life. I have a compulsive habit of masturbation (together with a ever growing collection of toys) as well as a porn watching habit. I could masturbate for 2-4 times in a day (as I’m sure many other males would probably also do the same)

    To get rid of this habit, the only way was wearing a chastity cage and handing over the keys to someone trust worthy.

    Goal of this project is my KH would hold on to the keys and I would be locked in the caged 24/7 without any chance to touch myself. I would not be allowed to be unlocked or cum unless my KH feels like it

    anyone else have the doing the same ? Feel free to share
     
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    Week 1:

    Knowing that I’m unable to masturbate or have an orgasm, I quickly masturbated and came twice in the night before chastity officially started.

    When chastity started, the first few days feels weird, like there’s something that’s attached to my dick.

    the rude awaking comes during the night, powerful nocturnal erections that would rise without any warning, with the ring pulling my balls away from my body. Ouch! I won’t not be able to sleep for the rest of the night

    by the 3 day of chastity, I was beginning to feel horny and frustrated. Trying to masturbate as a natural reflects, only to hold a hard unrelenting chastity cage in my hands. I was beginning to question my decision on being on this chastity journey and backing out of it
     
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    You may not realize it yet but the pent-up desire over extended periods of time will be much more pleasurable that the orgasms that last only seconds. In addition, when you finally do get to orgasm it will be much more memorable.
     
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    That is so true. The thoughts going through your head are better then any orgasum.
     
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    frankly it’s kind of frustrating(understatement) and distracting. For the first week, I was almost constantly aroused at every hour. Not being able to feel the sensations on my dick as well as being denied from almost daily masturbation is really tough. Worst, I didn’t have the keys on me to unlock the cage

    I don’t question myself if I should call it quits and it’s just a lapse of judgement to do this
     
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    Good things come to those who wait. No it is not easy but nothing good comes easy. If you want to break the habit you will have to overcome the frustration. Try looking at chastity captions as inspiration as to why you are doing this. It might help. Without a keyholder or a partner on board I imagine it's more difficult. I am doing this for her. If I wasn't in a relationship I'm not sure this would be my choice 24/7, though knowing what I know now, I would consider wearing it to stop me masturbating a few days before a date. Or even on a first date, as I would always want it in a relationship as it helps me be a better lover.
     
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    I' ve been in 24/7 lock for 5 years now. I know the frustration, the loss of control. But I also know how good it feels when she releases me and let's me jerk off . The orgadum comes very fast and very strong . It rattles my soul .
     
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    i wonder if he has make a mess yet.
     
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    Week 2

    my balls hurt…. Alot , especially so during the dawn. When my dick tries to do its dadily morning stretch only to find it against a cold unyielding plastic cage. The pain was so intense that it just woke from my dreams. There’s no way to make it go away. In fact the more I tried to adjust it, the harder my erection and the more my balls are pulled away from my body.

    at this point in time, I was so horny that all I can think about is masturbating and letting my weeks load flood the room. But no matter what I did , there was no way I could simulate myself enough to produce an orgasm, only leading to more and more frustration.

    To make matters worst, the chastity device that was I had was measured perfectly to the size of my flaccid dick. It was such a perfect fit that there isn’t any room for an erection.
     
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    #11 thecuriousone, Aug 4, 2021
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    Week 3

    I constantly woke up early …. Probably but the best alarm clock any man would have, a ring around the balls that when erected will pull your (now big and bulky testicles) away from your body, even causing pain to your lower abdomen area.

    looking down at my caged dick for the 3rd week at being forced to the 6 o’clock position, i finally came into the last stage of grief …. Acceptance. Interestingly enough, without an erection, I felt much much more submissive to my KH.

    does anyone else miss having an erection while being locked for extended period of time? How do you deal with it?
     
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    You mean like an orgasm? I really wished I did. I asked , beg, ordered, negotiated, tried reason with my KH to unlock me and allow me to masturbate … my KH was insistent that I would not be allowed to be out of chastity at least for the first 3-4weeks, after which my orgasm will only be permitted if my KH felt like it (aka no guarantees)
     
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    well that what they sposed to do.
     
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    This might be how it works, but to a guy that have been able to masturbate and cum whenever he likes, being caged and physically unable to do it is a very frustrating experience
     
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    With the caged on for about a month now, seems like my body is slowly but surely adopting. Seems like the number of erection I was getting (or at least trying to have) is slowly reducing. Like I don’t have much feeling for having an erection anymore

    This probably helps a lot and I don’t have the urge to masturbate in the morning since there’s no erection to fap too
     
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    I went into an area that has metal detectors, I was incredibly nervous that my cage would betray be and sound the alarm. I was just thinking of excuses that would sound possible ? “Hip replacement”? I’m too young and no one would believe that. body Jewelry? What kind of person wears jewellery in his crotch region? would I be pulled into a room and be asked to be searched?

    fortunately, nothing happen , nothing was detected. But it was an incredibly nerve racking experience nonetheless
     
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    Lol dude, lots of people do. Look up "prince albert' piercings on the interwebs when you get a couple minutes, your mind will be blown.
     
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    Week 5:

    I seem to be accustomed to my chastity device, so much so that it had became part of me.

    It has achieved it purpose in preventing me from masturbation as well as thinking of touching myself. It has been the longest time I have gone without an orgasm ever since I was a teen. The journey was rough, I hated the idea every morning when my dick would strain against the cage, unable to archive a full erection that it normally would. Instead being constant forced into a 6 o’clock position

    Seems like being in chastity also changed my perspective in life. I notice that unable to erect , i seem to be more submissive to my KH. Seems like this act would only lead to more denial of orgasm since my attitude has become quite pleasing.

    How many times do you think a man should be allowed an orgasm to keep himself healthy and sane?
     
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