I asked this in another thread and it looks like it got overlooked so I'll ask here. Do you think you can have a ruined orgasm by prostate stimulation? I'd prefer not to use the vibrator on my cage but still want the benifits of a ruined O without unlocking. In other words I want the horniness while avoiding the mood drop. Follow up question....if I stop just short of orgasming and get that feeling like it's coming and prolong that feeling as long as possible, I can't do any damage can I? Id describe it as my cum making its way through the tunnel but I try not to push it.... instead make it linger in the "tube"? Someone once told me to try and clench really hard to have a good ruined O. Any tips would be helpful.
I think ruined orgasms and prostate orgasms are two different beasts if that helps? Mm regardless some view an o as an o and not being chaste? Depends on your rules I guess.
If you want to have a ruined O without unlocking would a cage cummy be what you are looking for. My BR finds it quite humiliating and doesn't get the same drop as a regular O. Generally I just take the cage in my hand and work him into a frenzy until the desired result is achieved. Best wishes
Basically yes. *Blushes at the words cage cummy What about the cage providing stimulation due to being tight in fit? Is that just a formality? I thought you're supposed to stop all stimulation just before release. I'd imagine the perfect ruined O is un-cadged and humping air.
Yes that would be the perfect ruined O but you can't have everything and if you want to achieve release via a ruined O without removing cage this might be as close as it gets. It does seem to achieve the results in terms of lessening the drop. The heightened humiliation also is great for maintaining that zen subspace. Worth a try.... enjoy ❤️ but not too much
I know it’s different for everyone but I prefer now to cum while in my cage too. I used a tiny vibrator yesterday and wedged it up in my HT Nub and in just a few minutes I had the most intense orgasm - it lingered as you mentioned and I had to push a little to finally dribble my mess in my hand. I’m going to try and video it later this week and post it. Prostate stimulation takes me much longer and doesn’t always work and it’s not as satisfying, more in line with a RO. It only usually works if I’ve been edging for a few hours. I’ve gone through several prostate toys and prefer one that can inflate and put some pressure on my P-spot.
Great advice. When my wife wants to ruin one for me her method is to secure my hands over my head to the headboard. Unlock and remove the cage only and start a slow massage working me into a frenzy. Just as I'm about to "get there" she stops everything and I'm humping air trying to get some relief. Yes, I'm pulling at my restrained arms to get to my cock and finish myself off. Nope, I feel it dribble out of me and she leaves me there to cool down. She slips the cage back on and locks it up then releases me. Yes, it takes the edge off a little but I could ready to go pretty quick! A wife ruining O's for her sub hubby is a wonderful control method of who's really in charge. I love/hate ruined O's. I love the control she has.
I understand the appeal of being restrained, that being said my BR knows he is under no circumstances to touch and finish himself off no restaints needed.
A woman needs no bindings other than those of her will. For me the greatest failing would be my own weakness. If I break and beg her to stop (with the crop). If I protest her treatment of 'the boys'. If I dare give in to the carnal want of self-pleasure instead of choosing my need to do what I know would please Her.