Anyone else use this forum to deal with long term denial?

I have no doubt that the Mansion helps me come to terms with what Elle and I are doing. hardly a day goes by when I don't come and have a look at what everyone is up to (or at least claims they are!) and post a few replies here and there. My posts in my own journal have slowed down as over the year my brain has calmed down a bit. I can now go a week or so without having a melt down about chastity minutiae!

As for length of term of denial, I must be weird, as it doesn't seem to affect me much anymore. I am currently in my longest ever period of denial, just approaching three months, and I am fine with it. Maybe I have hit a plateaux, I don't know. I am still being cared for by Elle who enjoys teasing me and letting me provide her with pleasure. This last week saw me give her two orgasms which were both really nice, and that is enough for both of us. One of them was with a Yoni massage which is now our favourite method, it is so peaceful and powerful an experience.

I am travelling for yet another week starting today and we probably won't even discuss whether I go locked or not, it has just become what we do.

 

I check in several times a day, and am fairly active participant. I wasn't before being locked and having a kh. Had been a member since 2009, (under a different name) and rarely checked in or posted.

Once I was locked all day and night, have truly given all control to someone else, I need this outlet. I can't talk about chastity all the time with her, I think that would drive her nuts. I can't really chat with friends about this. Need to be able to vent frustration as well as share my happiness with others that understand.!

 

I don't think I talk about it enough to be gagged but I try not to let it dominate our life.

 

We exchange most of our views via imessage when apart, and yes I check in here several times a day, its a great place. Joined in September 2008 also like @Nicoftime under a different profile which stopped working so Jens set up a new one for me.

 

This point about us being locked and always aware of it is exactly my experience as well. Elle said recently that chastity isn't something we do all the time and I replied that it isn't something YOU do all the time, but it is something that I do all the time. I am always locked up, always aware that I am locked up. It was one of the conversations we had that made her realize that this is now our lifestyle, not just a game.

The Mansion definitely becomes the place to let out all the chastity pressure we cannot release by talking to our partners. My Wife even has me only being allowed to talk about chastity on Saturdays as one of her very few rules, precisely because I was overloading her with ideas, information, problems and who knows what else.

 

I'm very much more likely to use the site when I am not both in a relationship and locked.

 

I've been checking in daily since Nov. 3 - when the wife put me in permanent lock up. To me it's comforting to know that others are in the same situation and most all appear to deal with it quite cheerfully. I guess one can say it's a support mechanism, and I'm happy to be able to utilize it as such. Naturally, I intend to participate and add to the various dialogues as I progress in my journey.