Ive often wondered how the many people on here living out an FLR or equivalent relationship, arrived at where they are now so my question is
It just happened that way! My Wife was much more focused and organised than I am, she also had the career (probably for the same reason) and I am happy with the way things are. When I discovered we were living a de facto FLR without even knowing it I pointed this out to her. We have sort of gradually cemented it into a more obvious FLR but this is just strengthening what we were doing already. I brought up and suggested the chastity lifestyle and my Wife happily accepted her role, although I did have to prove to her I was serious first. I suppose I should call it a WLM but I just prefer FLR