Well it has got worse and better I went 6 months with out release then on the 11th may my 6 months was up I got to cum ......all down hill since then I had a rough couple of weeks to say the least , somebody here told me that would happen lol Now my wife has really gotten into it and I thought she was enthusiastic back before she let me cum .....now she is supper serious she only allows me out supervised for 3 mins to wash once a week and then locked up again she has taken a liking to me being plugged which is taking some getting use to .now she has me Taking photos of my self at work plugged and taking my underwear off or wearing hers I wear business suits by the way Very erotic and exciting but can't find a release both good and bad The old saying be carefull what you wish for .now I have urges to paint my toe nails and shave my legs anything to give some sort of release in my head .....is this normal? I never used to think like this All in all couldn't be happier just need some sort of release
Your probably quite right I have been making my wife happy as often as she will allow so the milking may help I don't know when I will be allowed to cum next last time I had to wait 6 months ....
Thank you for your advice I will ask her and see what happens ...fingers crossed Unfortunately she gets great enjoyment from me being so frustrated and having the key it makes her wet .....a good thing but god its mind altering
IMHO, milking is not all that great. The temporary relief just does not last that long and the cycle continues. The humiliation can be pretty exciting, though.
I turn my girl on by leaning over at the table during dinner out, at friends houses, where ever, and whispering "Dick In A Cage".... let's keep in mind that I do it for her enjoyment.... and keep her thinking about it too.
ive changed how i release slave. used to be once every 3 months, but for awhile now, its been when i want, which has been over a year now, lol. i dont keep count. im sure he does tho. when i did allow orgasm for him, was almost always ruined. ive milked him twice and am looking to try to make that even less enjoyable too. since he is cuckolded, his orgasms are really unimportant. he beleives that my pleasure is his pleasure and i like to enforce that.
I have been having the same feelings I also have started fantasizing about shaving my legs and nail poiish on my toes .....that subject never interested me but now ........what's happening lol
I have been interested in my feminine side and c-dressing since my teens. I find that the longer I'm in chastity the more intense my feminine side becomes. Just relax and go with it. So have fun.
I've never been (and don't expect/want to be) locked, so I don't know if that affects mindset. However, I have noticed that during more extended periods of orgasm denial my sexual desires are more fluid - I'm basically looking for any type of non-orgasmic sexual stimulation, which tends to lead to a focus on passivity - and on being attractive, both to my partner and others. Perhaps many men associate this kind of 'need' with femininity?
After being caged for a while, my "thinking with my penis" seemed to have been replaced by my feeling and thinking more feminine thoughts. I am now much more calm, softer, and less aggressive. Then, there's the dressing up and being a submissive sissy and it all comes together! I don't think that this is a simple "association"; I really FEEL feminine and I love it!
SW - Indeed - it's just interesting to me what we mean by 'feminine' feelings and behaviours. I'm probably, if anything, hyper-masculine in appearance. I suspect I enjoy the contrast between my appearance and my submissive behaviour - which is probably a different route to the same emotional state. This leads me to wonder if in our different ways, we're all expressing dissatisfaction with what 'masculinity' is, or what we're told it is.
Two cents...I look at a man like Ghandi. In no way feminine, yet calm, non violent, thoughtful considerate thinking man. Wife, children...the whole package...obviously a man in tune with himself and the universe. I entered this stage in my life with my wife not to feel or think more feminine, but to developed me as a man. I'm just a bit kinky and like an alternative lifestyle. You don't like what I have to say I'll meet you in the parking lot! Lol.
Oh and if I may, having what I said before, I look at some of the chaste "ladies" here and just marvel at their beautiful bodies and lingerie and their locked "clitties". At times I feel envious. Not that I am not feminized or want to be, I'm envious of the dedication to themselves and endure what must have been many challenges. I'm not sure I'm made of that.
I think the non orgasmic sexuall stimulation is exactly it as I only am allowed to get one orgasm every 6 months I am always searching for some kind of stimulation other than orgasms ....I have a very high and twisted sex drive so it is a challenge lol
@steele that's very nice of you to say. it does take a long time to make yourself nice and doing makeup takes a long time as well when you learning how todo it.