How much sexual relief is your man allowed?

Voted, I’m only allowed anal stimulation, I get anal orgasm, but I voted as never,

 

He's allowed to cum out of the cage, about once every two months. Sometimes less. And I might ruin him in between if I feel like it.

 

I am allowed a release every 5 to 7 days.

 

If Empress feels generous, she will do a ruined one maybe once every 4 or 5 months.

 

Goddess enjoys the thought of weeks and months without cumming. But she usually enjoys the sensation of us cumming together so much that I earn the right to cum by bringing us both to a very high climax. If I succeed she will let us cum together. As little as 2-3 days apart and as long as 14 days between my orgasms. (She still has plenty during that time).

Interestingly, she always says she regrets it and wants me kept locked longer. It usually takes 3-4 days before I'm truly back in my submissive role the way she prefers. The orgasm/sub drop is a bit of cat and mouse game we are a playing right now.

 

I just voted.

I am currently in day 58 of a 24/7 lockup, my longest ever. Wife/KH has been very strict: Not a single unlocking of cage nor a single orgasm permitted during this time.

This long without an orgasm, pre-cum leakage continues to increase. My wife gets a kick from this and loves to tease/torment me about it. So she has now put me in panties with a panty liner; made me go out and purchase my own panty liners. She inspects frequently to see if there is any leakage through the panty liner onto the panties. If so, I am disciplined for it.

 

I am allowed out to cum, but not often

 

Full orgasms via handjob four times a year ( after summer vacations,birthday,wedding anniversary and Christmas)
Remaining 8 months,drained via prostate milking while caged

 

doing a 12 month stint - so no unlocks or orgasms until Christmas. After that, we'll see I guess..

 

I get to give myself one ruined orgasm a month. Out in my garage, in a non-sexual setting so it's just a maintenance procedure. I had gone 6 months, and we were aiming to try 2 a year, but thought its better to not take chances.

 

The question was “How much relief is your man allowed”, so I was thinking about ‘to whom is this question directed’? My first conclusion was that it was a question to keyholders, but seen their limited responses I started to doubt. Then I was thinking about “your man”. In case this represents “her property”, then still KH’s may answer this question...

Nevertheless, topic remain that it is about limited releases and I am still interested to learn how KH’s treat their locked one’s. In my case, the longest was after 4 months. Now, as I am keeping stats about the reliefs my Love provides, my average is about once every 4 weeks - 6 weeks, no fixed intervals, teasing and ruining in between.

 

chastity was never about him. it is a tool of power and control. i have sex when where and how i want it and that is normally more than once a day. often more than that. his orgasm is of no importance so long as he preforms as instructed.

 

Once a week IF I get all my "chores" done for the week. No PIV, just masturbate in front of my keyholder. Every 6 weeks, I have to skip a week though.

 

She doesn't allow any relief, but if I have an accident and a ruined orgasm every couple of weeks, she is ok with that.

 

I vibe my clit while caged and I have lady type release maybe once a week. Going on 3 weeks now.

 

He gets milked about once a month when he’s caged. If he’s out, which is only for reasons of health and safety, he gets ruined on about the same schedule. It leaves him much hornier than the milking does, almost entirely unrelieved. He may need more of those, but I haven’t found the time.

 

I am alloués out to cum one or two times per month if i am lucky

 

We have been using no-handers for my releases and I find they empty very little semen but more exercises my system to remain healthy.

 

Nope, he is not ever allowed to cum, But unfortunately he does sometimes have accidents while I am teasing. Thats the time I decide if I keep going and make more mess from him, or just sit back and laugh as it jerks about with a trickle. Either way he know whats coming. Open wide and EAT IT. And now lick my beautiful long nails clean .

 

At least 20 times a year, they vary from intercourse, sucked off, or a nice hand job during a finger probing my prostate. I am released either every 7 days or every 14 days for real relief. My wife/KH enjoys sex, so I am very lucky. When I am on a 14 day cycle and I have satisfied her overwhelmingly with my tongue, I get a milking. Does nothing for relief, but does lower the pressure after the tease.

the only exception is Locktober and Lent, I have to go the whole time with nothing at all while she gets anything she wants.

 

My orgasm count has gone down quite a bit over the years to the point that now, I'm allowed one about every other month, although the timing is up to my Keyholder Wife. These vary from full, PIV climaxes to coming in the cage depending on Her mood.

This year, my max is set at 7, but She's hinted at aiming more towards 4. I'm at 2 right now.

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I always find it interesting when there's a poll without all the options, and then how the thread gets distorted away from it... I don't mean to bash or criticize, but really...
"relief"..
Leaking is something that comes naturally. It prevents 'blue balls' and is a part of sexual wellness. Whether it occurs while you are sleeping or going to the bathroom or just randomly at any time, a little goo discharge is the end state of goo production. I never noticed it until I got into chastity where it was an obvious thing, for me, it showed up while having a BM, I felt something 'passing' that wasn't pee then looked and saw this dribbling goo coming out! My first reaction was 'oh, no! that could have been an orgasm!' at which I reported the incident to my holder and she laughed and said "well, we'll count that as one even though it wasn't" and had me report in detail any time it happened again. As a nurse, she switched out of her keyholder hat and we had a fun discussion about what constituted sexual 'release/relief'. This led to the discovery that I cannot actually orgasm while caged even under the most promising stimulation. Anyway, as it turns out, 'we' also discovered my goo production cycle while caged shortly after this. I'm easily aroused and basically feeling horny whenever the peaks of production is going on.. It's fairly high the day or two after an orgasm , then there's a lull for around 10 days or so before it ramps up for a couple days then the lull again. That repeats regardless of how long I stay caged. She enjoys the science of chastity! Early on, she would mix it up, sometimes allowing me relief just when the lull was starting to end (nice), sometimes when at the peak of this (YAY) and then when the lull had just begun (sad). This led to more experiments and confirmations, and then it wasn't so much about the cycle any more as time- or event-driven chances for release became the norm....
At some point, we discussed "at the end of a session, the chance for unlocking?" and came up with the following as options she could choose from if she didn't have the desire to come up with something on her own....
no, stay locked - clock starts over
no, stay locked and wait for further instructions
yes, treat as casual hygiene opening, no stimulation, relock for new session with or without further instructions
yes, x orgasm(s) by x time, relock when complete or by that time
yes, enjoy x time free to do as you wish, lock at time specified
yes, enjoy free time, be aware instructions for relocking to follow at any time
yes, treat as hygiene opening, have fun, but be prepared to relock for new session on demand

SO.....

Our 'thing' as far as sexual relief started off for my pleasure and the science of how chastity affected the relief... That was years ago, and there was a break for us for a while, but now she's back into it... so....
To 'vote' on this poll, well, depends on her mood, but when the chance comes every now and then, it's either cum or deny, not much in-between, and is random.

 

I am not allowed sexual relief. Permanently locked is not my desire, to be sure, but I am just a slave, she says. Only she gets orgasms. My reward, she tells me, is pleasing her.

Note: I find I like female dominance more than a lot of guys on this forum, though, so just know I don't mind being forced into a situation against my wishes. Controlling, bossy women are hot. Chastity is merely one way she rules me.

 

Since we introduced chastity to our relationship, the gaps between release have widened. 1 week led to 2 weeks etc.

My partner took a vow that during 2020 my releases would be limited. So far I've had 4 - 2 ruined orgasms, where I came involuntary in my cage, and 2 enjoyeable releases where I was allowed to masturbate.

I'm currently on day 31 since my last release, which was a ruined orgasm.