New Year's resolutions and chastity.

I remember my first month of 24/7. I was amazed I was able to go through. My current longest time is 4 months. And now my partner is playing with idea her nor releasing me for the whole 2019.

 

Sure do. Cage is going on tonight when the ball drops. And short of a major issue it’s staying on all of January. With longer lock-up times throughout the year.

 

tangentially, I aim to be more productive.

 

36 days is fantastic. It’s your life and your commitment it doesn’t matter what others do or how long their Locked for. Chastity is a personal thing.

As for a Chastity resolution mine is simple. To not try to incourage or think about being unlocked, except that it won’t happen for the entire year.

That just me.

 

Are you expecting a full year (2019) in chastity Mash2214? A worthy endeavor!

 

My own resolution is to at least TRY one of the new range of small cages. I used to wear a curve but having seen the really small cages, I am now starting to think about this 24/7! I think I am driving myself slightly mad and it’s like an itch that just won’t go away! Sometime in January, it WILL happen.

 

So far I’ve caved and given my boyfriend @Skinky an orgasm after about a week, and often edge/ruin in between. This year my resolution is to keep him locked for longer with fewer ruins, etc. My goal is 2 weeks then see how that goes and maybe the whole month of Jan. If not, two weeks definitely and then increasing week by week from there.

Happy New Year everyone!!!

 

I'm not one for resolutions, especially not tied to something as arbitrary as the new year, but my "goal" is to minimize masturbation while my PA heals and I undergo stretching. I have a few thoughts on how I might accomplish that, but we'll see how they go.

 

I want to go all of 2019 without an orgasm. I also want to be locked in chastity as much of it as possible. Being only let out when my keyholder and/or friend want to play.

 

This will be the year I finally get over the chastity hump. I am finally going to take my chastity seriously and look at it as a way to better myself. I am really excited for what's to come this year! Happy New Year!

 

Yes expecting it and almost sure that it’ll happen.

 

Do it, it'll change your life.

 

Why not try for the month from Male Chastity Day on January 14 to Valentine's Day on February 14? That was our first whole month -- it gave her so much confidence and made Valentine's so special.

 

The amount of time locked or denied is not really important when it comes to being
devoted to someone. My resolution is to take everything day to day and focus on Her
and how I can be better loving, serving and caring.

 

If he is asking for the Chastity.
This could be the year to change things completely on him. Instead of ruined O’s. How about several trips to the edge and stopping before anything more than precum is released. Then locked back up until the next play session. By the time you get to Valentine’s Day. He will be more than ready to give you a wonderful day in hopes you will let him out and inside of you. But be careful, he will be like a 17 year old virgin again. He may not contain himself once’s he feels that hot,wet, place he so longingly missed being in.

 

Oh Queensbitch, how true the last part of your post is! I was last "allowed entry" in December 2017 and literally came as soon as I slipped inside Mrs Chaste! There was lots of it but that's all that can be said I'm afraid! Fortunately for me Mrs Chaste, far from being annoyed found it highly amusing! "Oh dear!" She said, "that was hardly worth the effort was it?" She was laughing away and said "perhaps I won't let you out any more after all neither of us got anything from it! How about a whole year?". "You wouldn't do that to me Mrs Chaste, would you?". "Wouldn't I? We'll see shall we?". I can confirm she would and indeed has! She is getting very good at teasing me in my caged state as well to the point where my semen just "leaks out" without any spasming at all! So not even a proper ruined orgasm. What a strange feeling that is I can tell you! I think she is rather pleased with herself and so she should be, I'm permanently horny and love every second of it!

 

I used to worry that my wife was displeased with losing my ability to last when I have been kept locked up.
Reading on here a while back and realizing how mentally stimulated a woman gets. I then realized why it only bothers us when we can’t last.
To a woman when we are allowed to get out and play and we can’t last proved to their mind how uncontrollably sexy we find our Keyholders to be.
17 years later and she knows she is so sexy to me that she can make me mess almost immediately if she chooses to, and we have absolutely no control to stop it from happening.

 

Thank you guys for the different perspective on "premature ejaculation". I've certainly become a premature ejaculator with chastity.

 

Starting today i will go 14 days without a release. She is thinking 30 days. Baby steps.lol. Her resolution. Lol.

 

seems to me like no one heard about the myth that the one who enters a new year in chastity will be locked the entire year?!