I’ve been self-locked off and on for the last year or so. I made it through LOCKTOBER 2022 on my own. I don’t have a true KeyHolder but have a female friend in another state that teases me and encourages me and gives me “denial suggestions.” I turn 50 years old right after Christmas and am looking for some suggestions on how to ring in the New Year! The longest I have been in chastity is 2 weeks. Any advice would help!
Happy early bday to you! Hmmm... I'm asking myself this very question on my own 2023 chastity goals/resolution... Certainly, you can aim to maybe extend your lock-up duration from 2 weeks to a month. Maybe use chastity as a form of training method to explore your other kinks. For instance, I'm currently using chastity as a form of training method for cum eating, ruined orgasm, pre-jac. I also have personal sissy goals/scenes that I want to experience next year, so I'm using chastity as a catalyst to help encourage I can accomplish these fantasies.
I was thinking I could try ruining my orgasm once a week for the first month and if that went well then ruin it every other week and just keep doubling it!
The last 25 orgasms/cums I've had were - locked in chastity, ruined/handsfree orgasm, under about 2 min, and I've been eating my cum. I'm hoping to stop this experiment New Year and then try to aim to not cum in Jan 2023.
My goals for 2023 have been set…I will have a ruined orgasm 21 times next year and will only cum twice with a true orgasm (both times I have to eat it)! I’ve also ordered a new, smaller cage that should arrive in a few days. Is it crazy that I’m EXCITED?! ❌