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    I’ve been self-locked off and on for the last year or so. I made it through LOCKTOBER 2022 on my own. I don’t have a true KeyHolder but have a female friend in another state that teases me and encourages me and gives me “denial suggestions.”
    I turn 50 years old right after Christmas and am looking for some suggestions on how to ring in the New Year! The longest I have been in chastity is 2 weeks.
    Any advice would help!
     
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    Happy early bday to you! Hmmm... I'm asking myself this very question on my own 2023 chastity goals/resolution...

    Certainly, you can aim to maybe extend your lock-up duration from 2 weeks to a month. Maybe use chastity as a form of training method to explore your other kinks. For instance, I'm currently using chastity as a form of training method for cum eating, ruined orgasm, pre-jac.

    I also have personal sissy goals/scenes that I want to experience next year, so I'm using chastity as a catalyst to help encourage I can accomplish these fantasies.
     
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    I was thinking I could try ruining my orgasm once a week for the first month and if that went well then ruin it every other week and just keep doubling it!
     
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    The last 25 orgasms/cums I've had were - locked in chastity, ruined/handsfree orgasm, under about 2 min, and I've been eating my cum. I'm hoping to stop this experiment New Year and then try to aim to not cum in Jan 2023.
     
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    Make a new goal and, if met, buy yourself a new, more awesome device. Happy Holidays.
     
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    My goals for 2023 have been set…I will have a ruined orgasm 21 times next year and will only cum twice with a true orgasm (both times I have to eat it)!
    I’ve also ordered a new, smaller cage that should arrive in a few days.
    Is it crazy that I’m EXCITED?! ❌
     
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    good for you!
     
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    Good luck
     
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