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  1. Princess Starlight.
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    Ive been keeping my sub locked for a while now 24/7 I want to start bringing some monthly rules in to spice things up a bit does anybody have any suggestions thanks
     
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    Rules, or tasks?
     
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    You know him best.

    If you have spent any time at all thinking about your expectations and/or goals for a FLR, then you have a good start.

    Start out easy. See how he reacts and performs. If he does fine, add to it. Think ahead about what you will do if he disappoints you. And, what will you do if he disappoints himself? What if he exceeds your expectations?

    It is hard to offer specifics without knowing more about you both. I’m pretty sure if you just get started, you will have no problem adding to his list of rules and tasks.

    Let us know what you are thinking now and you should get lots of suggestions.
     
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    Curtsy when entering the room or greeting you.

    No use of furniture.

    All housework.

    Asking permission to speak - and then speak clearly and succinctly conveying all pertinent information coherently with no uum's or uuh's. Speech counts, as does everything else about him, and it should all function to her maximum benefit. It's that important because you're that important.

    Kept naked and collared

    Make him learn slave positions and then drill him harshly every day. It will bond him to you as an extension of your will. When you speak mere numbers, 1, 5, 7, his whole body spins and twists into radical shapes before your eyes.
    You'll enjoy seeing this when he gets good at it, and you will feel real power as his trainer.

    There are even hand signals so you dont have to speak at all. Handy for a crowded party. ; )
     
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    Have him cook you dinner from scratch.
    Barbecue/Grilling counts.

    Have a salad, Main Dish and a side.

    He will need to experiment so there will be times where it is not that good.

    Have him keep making dinner to the point he has 3-4 solid recipes, then have him move on to a desert or two.

    To me there is nothing greater than serving My Beautiful a wonderfully prepared him cooked meal with a homemade desert.

    Any Man can be handy, a Man that can cook is something special.

    Quick tip, clean up as you cook. It makes it easier at the end.
     
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    The kitchen has been my domain from day one. Princesses are ok at putting things in the oven but suck at preping veg. I regularly cook quite elaborate food.
     
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    We have started a maintenance spanking on the 1st of every month. 100 strokes plus any earned for stepping out of line. We have been thinking about rules that I can fall foul of whilst still been a bit of fun.
    We have a youngsters in the house and were not super hardcore (yet). We are still pretty new to this so all suggestions are welcomed.
     
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    I am sure there are things you don't enjoy doing on a weekly or daily basis... make those things their's now... and maybe when they are doing something you don't enjoy, you can do something minor.

    For example, maybe you hate cleaning your bathroom... make them do that while you take the same amount of time to straighten up the couch... then you can tell them how great it is that you cleaned the house up.
     
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    Would be helpful if you could let us know yours and his limits first, so we can go from there.
     
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    We are always up for trying new things we just started out being a kh few months so all new
     
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    domestic/household

    or

    Sexual
     
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    He should make breakfast, make the bed and change sheets, do the laundry, do the dishes, vacuum the carpet, open and close the car doors for you, warm your towels in the dryer while you shower, and just take good care of you the rest of the day and provide oral sex during the day when needed.
     
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    He should massage you every day, that's a real treat and one I would never want to do without.
    My sub holds my towel ready when I exit the shower and pats me dry, that's a nice subby task I think.
    He can make you tea or coffee in the morning before you get up, or maybe even breakfast. He can make the bed.
    He can lift the heavy stuff, do the driving when you require it, take you where you want to go etc.
    And he should just do as you ask, as long as it's within the agreed limits of you two.
     
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    What about sitting to pee.
     
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    Sounds good
     
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    All ready does that
     
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    Yes he all ready does a few of these yes I see where your going with this thanks for advice
     
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