And So It Begins

My wife P and I had a long, beautiful talk a couple of weeks ago. The long and short of it is that we agreed together that she will lock me into chastity and she will hold the key. We will guide our journey with the wisdom shared in Key Barrett's great chastity ebook. We already have the lock (it is in P's possession) and had thought that our Cherry Keeper would be shipped on February 15th. We were notified this morning that our Cherry Keeper has shipped. This made both of our hearts skip a beat. We'll be starting early - probably on Valentine's Day.

Much to do before then, including deciding between a close shave from P, and a waxing. The shave seems sexier, but allows the quick growth of stubble that irritates. I don't think either of us wants any element that cuts into comfort and tilts the scales against success. The waxing (so we read and so we're told) is not for the faint of heart. Pretty much all of the possible accumulated irritation from stubble is traded for several toe curlingly painful yanks of wax strips that have solidified around one's pubic hair (balls, perineum, and anal areas included. ) I'm not shy about pain - in fact it is one of life's great pleasures and it gets me going like few things do. This, though, seems possibly pretty agonizing. Even women tell horror stories about it. It's not as if we can ask the person doing the waxing to strap me down to the table to keep me from hitting the ceiling. (Or maybe we could! Any thoughts/recommendations from those who have been through a waxing? Am I making more of it than I should? Maybe it would be fun to do a poll? A) A shave from P; B) A waxing; C) A DIY waxing from P after having been strapped down, and we'll abide by the results of the poll? Must ask for P's input and permission. Lucy, if P is good with it, can we do that?

Moreplease

 

Thanks, Hardbodysub. This is excellent information. So my understanding is that it takes 4 to 5 weeks before stubble begins to appear after a Brazilian/Bikini Wax, and that when it does it starts lighter (fuzzier?) and softer/more delicate and then grows in. This, as opposed to daily facial stubble that can be mistaken for sand paper. If the pubic and butt stubble that grows in is really softer and more delicate as it reaches the 1/4" required before rewaxing, I think that would be OK. Have to check with P. Or do I have it all wrong?

 

Well, we will go with waxing, but it must wait a month or so. Had annual checkup yesterday, and PSA came in a few 10ths high. Doc says likely nothing to worry about but need redo in a month or so with no ejaculations or manipulation of the prostate for a few days before. The catch is that if the numbers are still a little high, I'll need to see a urologist. Regular doc = cool guy who gets it. Urologist = unknown quantity. Never know what response the results of a male Brazilian might elicit. Neither the time nor place to find out. P will be taking me to a waxing salon when the time comes.

Meanwhile, P has LOCKED me! She had wrapped several ribbons around the box the Cherry Keeper came in, and after having me bend over the bed and cuffing my wrists over my head, she delivered 20 strokes for each bow using the Delrin implements. These devices are brutal, and I now consider it a mercy to be bound for beatings. Straining against the bonds provides a place for the energy of the strokes to dissipate and the bonds keep me from embarrassing myself by trying to slip out of range of the blows. After each set of 20, and provided I hadn't made any noise other than to count strokes, I was handed a pair of scissors and given 5 seconds to cut away one bow. Not easy to do while restrained. In the end, as the last bow was cut away, 147 strokes had been administered. I thanked P profusely for the energy and creativity she had put into the beating. She smiled and released me.

We opened the shipping box together and took out the Cherry Keeper. It is a beautiful piece, and the color combination is highly representative of Valentine's Day AND reminiscent of colors one might find in women's lingerie. The latter was not lost on either of us. Fun for P. Fun and humbling for me. There is a photo in the "more please discipline gallery." The Cherry Keeper truly is gorgeous.

Getting the base ring on required a trip to the shower to get the scrotum relaxed. The "boys" could see what was up and they weren't having it. After a while in the warm water, though, they recognized "Resistance is futile" (Jeri Ryan has nothing on P) and submitted to the ring. P carefully protected my frenum and slid the cage in place. She placed the barrel lock in place, pulled my face to hers and kissed me, turned the key, and removed the key from the lock. It was 5:45 p.m. CDT. My legs were shaky and my heart was (and is) floating. I've no idea where she has stored the key, and I am quite helplessly locked away. P has told me that the current sentence is to be highly supervised and that I am to report any chaffing or serious discomfort immediately. Any such report will result in unlocking for inspection. If P's inspection finds good reason for a complaint, she will remedy the problem and relock after any irritation has healed. If she deems a complaint unfounded, she will administer a punishment spanking of a minimum of 150 strokes for the first offense and will increase the number of strokes by 50 for each subsequent offense. The minimum assumes I do not lose count, that I annunciate the appropriate number after each stroke, and that I make no other noise during the punishment. I do so love and respect P! Other than that, the minimum sentence is 14 days and I will not be told of the date and time of release until the moment has arrived.

The Cherry Keeper, at least at this early stage, is quite comfortable. The wider ring provides little room between the cage and the base ring, and I just do not see how it would be possible to escape at all from this device. Pull out seems impossible (though I will try after the romance of the first lock has subsided) and there just isn't room for an escaped ball. The short cage gives no room for an erection to start, so the cage (at least so far) doesn't pull the ring away from the balls. The cage also provides no room for the flaccid penis to move around inside. The urethra's opening stays where is should - right against the head of the cage, and peeing while standing is easy and clean. No spraying. P supervised this the first time, frowned, and told me she didn't care if it was possible or even easy to stand and pee. She now expects me to sit regardless. How humiliating. How wonderful! It is interesting not being able to access one's penis. The design also makes it difficult to feel one's penis through the cage material. It feels a little like my penis) is not there anymore. How hot is that?

Josie Lynn, we are both grateful for the work you have put into the Cherry Keeper. It is more than we could have hoped for, in so many ways. P is satisfied that I am secure, and I LOVE it. Be sure to check the picture!

Jamie

 

NeedingToBeLocked,

Thank you so much for this. I suspect there is nothing going on - there had also been considerable sexual activity including anal penetration (of me) within 24-36 hours of the exam. I did not realize that these things are capable of raising numbers. Regardless, I will soldier on. P is amazing, and I will NOT disappoint her. Again, your words are comforting. I appreciate your kindness.

Jamie

 

NeedingToBeLocked,

One week left before a second test. My cage comes off tonight, and there will be zero sexual activity at least until the test results come back. My cage goes back on immediately when I return from the PSA blood draw. Tonight is punishment night - there are 72 cold strokes accumulated. P has already told me that these will be postponed so there are no embarrassing explanations needed should the second PSA test indicate a need for a prostate exam or biopsy. She also told me to watch my step since 72 is in "very difficult to take" territory and that she will not split the punishment or forgive any strokes. That likely means getting strapped down and gagged so P can do her work and the neighbors don't get an earful.

It is so kind of you to ask!

Jamie

 

Thanks Moe5. I agree that this is nothing to fool around with. I hope all turned out well for you?

 

What is Dre?

 

Ah! The first draw was a day or two after P had conducted her own version of a DRE. More D's and a lot more vigorous than your run of the mill DRE. I am going to see a urologist though, Moe5 is right - nothing to fool around with. Thanks!

 

No worries - I didn't think you meant that. We are on the same page.