As you can see from my ticker it's been sometime since I last cum, and so I'm thinking about whether milking is necessary for prostrate health. I understand a number of members on here undergo it for erotic/sub enhancement purposes. We have never done milking and I sure my Wife doesn't know what it is. I would only do it currently or my Wife (maybe, I'm not sure) for health reasons. What's your opinion: necessary or not?
Opinions on weather it's necessary or not vary, so research ive done says that it not, abd that the body will expel when its ready (wet dream). As for my goddess sge has NO desire to even try it.
I would love to experience it as I would find it somewhat humiliating. Locked and my seed completely not wanted, needed, nor necessary to her. We will play at this over time I'm sure, as our journey continues.
For us, milking is just another part of the FLR. I don't think it's necessary for prostate health, but as a substitute for orgasms for me. She also uses it as a way of better controlling me and keeping me spent and docile, which it clearly does. While I never orgasm or ejaculate from milking, I have come to anticipate the event. Funny how that works!
@DonnaSue says it perfectly. Milking may not be necessary for your health but as away of controlling us it definitely is an effective tool for our Mistress’s to use. When I’ve been milked I’ve had mixed feelings. Yes it gives me some pleasure during it but like DonnaSue says being docile afterwards isn’t always so desirable
We don't practice milking. Even when I'm locked for longer periods. My body expels itself on regular basis. That is one larger load after peeing once every couple of weeks. More often when I have to wear butt plugs.
Yes, @buildup ! After a milking, I feel drained and my interest in anything sexual is much the same as I used to feel after having traditional PIV sex. So much so, that it seems kinda depressing at times, if I think about it too much. But it is clear and personal evidence of Her control when I think how much She can do with just her gloved finger. True domination!
Quite the opposite! While drained, I am even more appreciative of Her and, if anything, it increases my desire to find ways to serve Her more. (I don't think She really enjoys sticking Her finger in there; She does it for control and kind of a reward for me)
Our Ladies are wonderful the things they do for us! How many women would put their finger in hubby's bottom for his pleasure! We tried milking with a prostate massager once can't say it was very successful though!
Necessary or not ? Not ! The only reason you can read sometimes it should be necessary for prostate health / cancer prevention, but you can be sure that your food, living enviroment etc. has a way higher influence on that. On the other hand there might be something for you in it if you are willing to invest the time nessessary and find the right way for you to do it.
I am not milked, but I anally stimulated very often, it’s the only way I am allowed to orgasm now, but I agree it is not a necessity, your body will discharge when it needs to of its own accord, I find if I am not fucked till I orgasm for a while I will expel when having a bowel movement as it stimulates my prostate.
I haven't noticed any emmisions yet and I don't have wet dreams. The is some minor leaking during tease and denial.
A concerned friend pointed me towards this podcast, and there are some good things in here about prostate health. This podcast has a few episodes concerning the prostate, and worth checking out. (Short version -- yes, it's important to expel the fluid periodically, in some manner) https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/unleash-the-power-of-prostate-orgasms/
I have a love/not so love it feeling about being milked. I love the idea of being milked by my wife but at the same time feel humiliated in the act itself. It's an amazing feeling to see and feel your cum just drain out of you with no pumping behind it! A lazy mans orgasm! LOL Like DonnaSue, I feel very drained like I had PIV sex without the pumping action. Milking does rob us of that feeling but at the same time provides us with a little relief. I feel very submissive after being milked. My wife places a small dish under me while I'm on all fours to capture the liquid. That is a treat for me to lick up afterwards. I think everyone should try milking at least once. We discovered it in a round about way when my wife was stroking me as a tease and as i was nearing the point of no return she just stopped. Seconds later it dribbled out of me. I was shocked and she was happy. I needed like two or three more strokes from her and I could have got a full blown orgasm. That started the milking for us. We bought an Aneros but have found her finger works best, plus gives me that personal connection feeling. At first I sort felt like a slave or animal that needed it's regular milking to keep in line and to be productive. (that's pretty close to the truth!) Staying in your cage and being told to take your panties off and get into postion, I know what's coming. Well, not cumming but you know what I mean!
I don't think my Wife would be into milking: she would not like me having my sexual frustration relieved as she likes to keep my balls on the boil.
I completely understand that! A horny submissive a good submissive. Keeps all the focus on her and her needs.
There is a medical study connecting frequent (I think 3 times a week) orgasms with a reduced risk of prostate cancer. That doesn't make it a medical necessity and has already been pointed out there are many other higher risk factors such as diet, exercise and smoking. So a claim for "need" due to medical reasons doesn't fly. That being said there are tangible benefits as others have pointed out from a psychological point of view. I have not experienced the let down some others have described. Quite often I am amped up for more stimulation afterwards. I also have very different reactions physically. It's become more common for me to have a sissygasm during milking. I also never produced much "milk". At first this made me think we were doing something wrong and then I just stopped worrying about it and enjoyed the ride.
I'm glad I read your post , while I'm lock I experience that I tend to leak pre ejaculat really heavy while having a bowel.