Hi all Have a simple but contraversial question: do you love your wife more since she holds your keys to chastity? Do you love could also mean are you loving her more? Im talking real Love as in the emotional connections. I am 6 weeks in chastity with Madame Vanilla, after at least 5 years with zero sex. I have stopped masturbating and have a long flow of sexual excitement in her presence and not much interest in other women. I think of her when we are apart and want to fuck her. We have Piv on her terms once or twice a week and we cuddle and hug every bedtime and waking. I want to make sure she keeps on track with denying me so I am hell bent on being the best husband out there, helping and attending to her. I forgive any nagging and realise thats due mostly to my own selfishness and try to listen harder. We kiss. So after 13 years and all the hassles of familys etc. and the feeling that our relationship was monotonous and boring and me masturbating daily to porn and woman fantasies, here I am rediscovering intense feelings for the woman I married. So in both senses I love her more now she is my keyholder. Anybody agree?
I would say I agree!-you are in the 'omg we have stumbled across something non-conventional and rebellious that actually should be more well know amongst married couples possibly!!'-x
I don’t think that I love my wife any more than before. We’ve been best friends from when we met and have stayed that way since. However, after chastity, I think that I appreciate her more and have underestimated the value that she has provided to our home, our children, and me in particular. Giving her control and keeping me denied, has helped me see all this. It’s also brought the sexual tension back to like it was when we were dating and just married, but my love for her has only increased over time.
I think our relationship has grown stronger since starting chastity. We have hours long conversations now about our relationship; what we are doing, what we have done and what we would like to try. We started chastity in 2020 so that has presented many challenges that having these types of conversations has allowed us to deal with as a team. I have loved my wife more every year we have been together, so yes I love her more since chastity. I just don't know if I would attribute it directly to chastity if that makes sense. Good question, I look forward to reading answers.