strange emotional feelings when finally allowed to orgasm

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    Quick question I only get to orgasm once every 6 months and after I have a mixture of weird emotional feelings is this normal ??
     
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    Yes. Next question?
     
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    its the chemicals and hormones. I'm sure its fine.
     
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    #4 Mascara^Snake, Oct 24, 2015
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    Emotional feelings in men are not unheard of.
    What you need to do is take some time to describe them here, as accurately as you can and then we can decide whether or not they are "normal"
     
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    If by 'strange' you mean 'emotions that would not usually be associated with orgasm' then I think perhaps that is not so unusual.

    Sadness, regret, a sense of loss even, humiliation perhaps...... How about instead of the usual closeness associated with sex, an emotional distance which if there is no understanding and/or communication can lead to a level of disassociation. At the same time all of the above can be mixed with the strongest feelings of love, elation, gratitude, etc.

    Any and all of the above can be normal, and presumably one of the reasons some folks prefer not to come ever. My Wonderful likes to see me come though, so sadly I get to experience the highs and lows of the above on a reasonably regular basis - like once a fortnight, but generally not to such a strong degree as my head isnt playing the kinds of games it would be if that was reduced to once in 6 months!

    Mind you, we've not had PiV (ughh - hate that term, but it IS useful) for about 6 months, and the next time, if there is a next time, I would expect a far stronger mixture of emotions including all of the above and probably some I cant think of right now.

    So, not unusual emotions, I think reasonably common. But sometimes unexpected.
     
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    I can only share my own feelings which were all positive. Trust that my KH knew exactly when the time was best for me to release, gratitude for her allowing it, and love for her as a woman courageous enough to step outside the box of conventionality to manage her mans needs in a way that worked so well for both of us. Sometimes these feelings were so strong that I had an emotional as well as physical release and she would hold me in her arms as I cried tears of gratitude into her bosom. Thanks for triggering such sweet memories.
     
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    You talk as if that was in the past Stevepie. It sounds so sad!

    I have only just started my chaste journey, three weeks and two days since my last release, the longest I have ever gone without an orgasm since they first started. I only know I am in no rush to have one. I will report back when it finally happens and will pay special attention to any emotions I have.
     
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    unfortunately it was in the past.........I hope you have an understanding keyholder. Since my release was somewhere past 3 - 4 months be prepared for some intense emotions in the interim.
     
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    @Steviepie my keyholder is very understanding, she is my wife of the past 25 years. We are talking a lot about what this means to both of us and the experience is very positive. I hope that you find the person you need to be your rock, if that is what you want. My wife is certainly mine.
     
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    I am very happy for you and hope you are learning to trust her instincts always.
     
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    As an aside for @Jasmic68 and anyone else new to this.... that either a milking, or an edged orgasm, or a ruined one, will all leave me frustrated, still horney, and with a bit less pressure inside - but with none of the grumpyness of a full orgasm.
     
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    @SubVerity i have learned about ruined orgasms and have successfully given myself one for the first time ever last week. I did not feel like I was cheating by masturbating as I started fully intending to edge myself. The ruined orgasm was by accident. I told my wife about it as well.

    On Saturday I tried to repeat what I did with my wife watching. A mixture of performance anxiety and the batteries going on the vibrator I used, held against my glans, meant I managed to edge this time, but not ruin! Oh, the irony.

    The reason I need to use a forced orgasm technique is I have found that when I am first released from my device my penis is really tender and I cannot actually masturbate in the conventional way.

    Part of me is intrigued to find out whether I suffer from this post orgasm grump, a larger part is hoping I can spend a considerable time just ruining my orgasms or being milked.
     
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