Chastity QotD 9/7/2022

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by King Hippo, Sep 7, 2022.

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If you are about to orgasm from your Wife/Mistress, do you need to let them know?

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  1. King Hippo
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    Question of the Day
    I don't do this often, but I feel polls can be fun... and seeing others express their situation can be so helpful to others who need advice/help.


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    I personally have stopped at the request of my wife when I am about to cum. She says if it happens, she meant for it to happen.
     
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    She can tell it's about to happen, I bet she could get it within 5 seconds based on my breathing and sounds.
     
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    I have to ask her for permission before I cum. She usually replies with an "not yet" and makes we wait a few more minutes before allowing me to cumming.
     
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    #4 Chili-boy, Sep 8, 2022
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    I am not allowed to cum under any circumstances, I always have to say I am about to cum and either told to stop immediately or she stops touching. If she sees or feels a little pre-cum everything stops and I'm put away. Its for the best
     
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    I like it when she does that
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    I tell my wife to stop… she will continue. I have to restrict whatever device or body part she is utilising at the time.
    It is my dream that one day my wife will understand my body and be able to control my orgasms (or complete lack of) without prompts.
    Judging by the poll so far it may seem that this is actually fantasy stuff that doesn’t work in practice.
     
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    I've never needed to warn her. She only lets me out of my cage if I'm allowed to orgasm. I've wished I could reach an orgasm many times when she teases me but it just isn't possible without stimulation to my little guy.

    If she used a vibrator on my cage, I'm sure it could happen but she's never done that even though I suggested that as a way to tease me. There WAS one time she removed the cage to play with me after I suggested it would be nice to have an erection during my 90+ day denial stint, but she didn't go very far and doesn't appear to want to be bothered with getting the key out of the lockbox.
     
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    Because of how we do things I know well in advance how far I’m allowed to go. I either have to tell her to stop completely or give her enough warning to ruin it, depending on the current sentence.
     
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    I'm in a long lock right now so it's a moot point.

    Prior, and unless something changes, I have to tell her, not that it matters as she is very perceptive.

    I am incentivised because she has said that if I cum without permission then I will be locked for 6 weeks continuously, and while that is some people's fantasy it is not mine.
     
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    On the very rare occasion I am allowed to come from a tease and denial session I have to ask permission, but that is freaks far between, if it’s an anal orgasm then I don’t madam loves to see me cum without being touched.
     
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    Generally she would prefer to see me come and she enjoys having the ability to make me feel such pleasure and it is a rare situation when she denies much less delays my orgasm once we get started.
     
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    Doesn't mind if I do ask nowadays, and probably would say "weren't you supposed to ask?" if I didn't now, but it wouldn't bother her either way. I would only be in mock trouble. It's more about me not masturbating that she enjoys than the denial aspect. She's way too easy in me. Lol
     
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    i am never allowed to ejaculate during t&d. And She always says "NO cumming" before starting t&d. If i am being milked, i do still ask when i know it is getting near. i think She just appreciates the respect and obedience of it. If i am called upon to fuck Her, She will usually tell me that i may cum in advance, as She does not want to be bothered by me asking during Her orgasm.
     
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    I have to always ask for permission. She loves the control and the fact I am not allowed to cum without her approval.
     
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    I am absolutely NOT allowed to cum without permission, and even if given permission before-hand I *ALWAYS* ask for permission again to verify before I cum.

    (and thank Her after)
     
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    I get one O a month, she is very kind and polite about it, not demanding. In my pre chastity days I was to much of a jerk to stop myself from making a mess she had to clean up. She will never again clean up my mess she did not give me permission to make.
    I like being chaste!
     
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    I'm not allowed to ask for permission anymore, I just tell her when I'm close and she decides what happens from there. I don't think she liked the interruption of me asking before, and to be honest it killed the vibe when I didn't fully hear her answer.
     
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    Yes. She needs to know so she can decide whether it's time to stop whatever we are doing or not. I am not permitted to ejaculate without express permission.
     
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    Yeah. I most certainly have to ask. If I finish without permission I get punishment. Not funishment, punishment.
     
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