Where did you meet?

Match.com.... and we were both 100% vanilla when we met. Sorry, I'm sure that wasn't much help. But, when you meet someone, talk to her. Find out what you both like, and try new things! Life is short, have fun with it.

 

We met on an old chat platform on yahoo it was BDSM. After six months We did in-person meet at a Munch close to both our Homes. It was an Interview for a position as a submissive to train as Her slave. Growing up in a strict Catholic Home. then spending my school years in a Catholic boys prep school, I found it wild That She wanted to meet the first time was called The Good Friday Munch lol. So We talked and talked finding We had so much in common outside the world of kink. Before we knew it they were closing it was time to go, She asked me if I had Family plans for Easter, Told Her no plans that door closed long ago. I still worked for the Army but was transferred to the area to work on a project. I told Her This would be my final Duty Station, She works as the Head Elect Engr for one of the big three, The last two submissive men She met and worked with failed. Then She said, what say you? I did not know what to say it was all new to me to the FLR but always dreamed about it, She said Hoe would you like to escort me to a party tomorrow night. so I said Yes Ma'am what should I wear. She said a black shirt, black pants, black shoes also a thong, never wore a thong I said. She said don't worry about the thong I have one and wrote down directions to Her home. then reaching into Her big handbag pulls out a box slides it across the table and says when you get home to open it and call me. That was 19 years ago it was my first of many Chastity cages in it was cb2000.6 months later I sold my condo and moved in with Her. Five years later worried I could be called back for another deployment to South America or the Middle East. So She sat down with me and asked if I was ok retiring at 50 because She wanted us to start me as Her 24/7 slave. So after my chain of command went nuts I retired. moved into a 24/7 Mistress and slave relationship. We had A lifestyle wedding at A friends Farm, Both our Fathers Had passed years ago but what made me really happy that both our Mothers came but still nervous at what my Mother would see, It was Great, Here we are the next Good Friday Munch in 2020 it will be 20 years and it moved down the street but still going strong. I got a little carried away with my response sorry. Thank you

 

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We meet at a bar. This was long before I knew my need for a strong woman. She came up to me and started talking to me and everything took off super fast. We dated 3 months and moved in together. We haven’t left each other’s side since except for work. We was married probably ten years before we discovered chastity and bought our first CB. Now she proudly says she doesn’t wanna see one if it is packing steel.

 

Thank you I am very lucky indeed, She took the time to train me in service to her. lol lucky in tell a demerit is written in the punishment notebook I carry around, Fri when She gets home from work it is to the Dungeon same time the same day every week, 10 plus strokes of the cane, Thank you

 

We met at a mutual friend’s house 39 years ago. We were both vanilla until I introduced chastity earlier this year at almost 37 years of marriage.

 

We met at a friends house, neither of us knew the other was into kink, we were on a relationship for a few months then called it off, about 6 months later me got back in touch, madam told me she was getting on to being a Dom, I told her I was in to bdsm, and a sub, and bam that was it, we have been together ever since.

 

I meet Mistress in a bar where I worked in Spain and when She went back home to UK after a bit She rung me and ask if I wud like to go and live there. so I did.

 

She was in a country music bar with her parents. She was 19 years old at the time, and now at 65 she wishes we had discovered tease and denial a long time ago.

 

We didn't know each other, but we had common friends. I had planned a boardgame day and she asked if she could join. So she did. When I brought her back to the station, our eyes met when she walked away and lightning struck. But we both were to confused to act.
The next day, she started a chatting that ended with me picking her up for one night. And she never left.

During the chat we talked about BDSM and chastity, but it took about 8 months before we started on this wonderfull path.

 

I think it will for a very long time. We've just celebrated our first marriage anniversary so if it's up to me many more good times will be had

 

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I met both my ladies over 30yrs ago at a week long pagan festival that’s dedicated to goddess worship. We entered an flr from the start, but have yet to find a consistent place for chastity in our relationship. Still learning. Still making mistakes. Still having a great time. Good luck with your search.

 

In school over 20 years ago. By today’s verbiage, she might have been called “queer”. She was dating a guy, and also had a relationship with a hot married woman. She liked to go to gay bars and drag shows, when I had never been. We went to a swingers club to watch within a few weeks of dating (she had gone with a married couple).

so.....we didn’t talk about my niche kink of chastity or CD until some time later...but I was fairly certain she was open minded. We are still a work in progress almost 25 years later.

 

We were both working at a Renaissance festival when we met 17 years ago, our relationship started a little kinky and has worked up to chastity and flr over the years. I found I was into female domination back when I was a teenager into the punk rock scene.... nothing has changed