GF decided it’s time to lock it back up.

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    #1 Deleted member 103212, May 9, 2023
    My GF and I started using chastity about 4-5 months ago. The longest I went locked was 94 days. I was allowed to have a few orgasms in that span. Life got crazy busy with traveling out of the country, a few other trips and both of us moving into a new home together. We agreed to take a break until we got settled in. Last night we were unpacking our “toy” box and she grabbed the cage. She told me I was allowed PIV, but then I was to be locked up before work and give her both keys. Here I am. Back in the saddle. It took me 4-5 mins to get soft after she handed it to me this morning after my shower. I missed it. I’ve noticed I’ve been kind of misbehaving the last few weeks compared to when I am under lock and key. Not sure how long she plans on this but probably very long term.
     
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    #2 Chaz69, May 9, 2023
    She'll probably let you out on the 1 year anniversary
     
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    #3 Deleted member 103212, May 9, 2023
    And I’m ok with whatever she decides. That’s why she’s in control. Our relationship is much better when I am.
     
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    #4 Jubisnack, May 9, 2023
    That's awesome! How long would you say your average period between orgasms was, when you were locked up last time?
     
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    #5 BavarianWoman, May 9, 2023
    I am curious about it.
     
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    #6 FLRAdvocate, May 9, 2023
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    Missing it does tend to happen. I feel naked af without my cage on now; it just feels...weird.

    And most women pretty quickly discover that, once they've locked their guy up and then released for for any length of time, they have some pretty significant behavioral changes. So if she's like most women, she won't even allow you out for a long-term again. There's just not benefit to her for doing that.
     
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    #7 Deleted member 103212, May 9, 2023
    I’d say 3 weeks on average. Longest was 30 days.
     
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    #8 Jubisnack, May 9, 2023
    Cool. The 3 weeks average seems like a good balance, at least to me as a newbie in this world.
     
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    #9 sb90, May 9, 2023
    For me, 3 weeks is a lot!
    Congrats! I wish I would be able to do the same!
     
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    #10 Deleted member 103212, May 10, 2023
    It’s not my choice. I don’t get to decide.
     
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    #11 Her_LM, May 10, 2023

    That’s correct, I know deep down that’s what we desire, but ultimately it’s up to our k/h’s.

    Currently locked since January 1st this year, no orgasm now for nearly 4 months, it’s her choice. I remember starting off, 1 week, 3 weeks etc, you soon forget how that felt.
    Good luck with your experience.
     
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    #12 true42, May 12, 2023
    This is exactly what I have experienced.
     
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    #13 BavarianWoman, May 12, 2023
    :)
     
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    #14 madams-sissysub, May 13, 2023
    Congratulations and enjoy!
     
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