I am really new to this .....two weeks and counting. But I have already found a new kind of love and affection for my beautiful wife . I want to be at her service at all time weather in the bedroom or out . Before chastity I would masterbated at least once a day either we would have sex or not . I have not masterbated since Nov 25 !! I've always been addicted to my wife but now more than ever . Her perfume , her hair but more than anything her pussy !!!! It is so delicious and smells so wonderful . I can't get enough . If I'm home I can't even walk by our bathroom without stopping by the cloths basket and smelling her panties and of course that starts my water works !! We were laying in bed last night and she said she felt bad that I am doing a) these things for her and she has entered done anything special for me . I told her this is how I should have been all along . And that her being g with me and loving me is more than I could ever repay She said she wanted to do something g special for me and asked what I wanted and I said I just wanted her to keep going along with my chastity fetish keeping me locked up and teasing me as often as she could. She right then rolled over took her yoga pants off and pressed her beautiful pantied ass against my cage and went to sleep . She has been grate since we started and I couldn't love her more she truly is my goddess !!
You say it's anything for her but it seems to be your self and your fetish that is being satisfied. Maybe find out what she wants, maybe its her desire, to be submissive to you and you need to take turns, switching rolls.
Congratulations! It sounds like you are truly finding out sometimes less is more. Her feelings of guilt will subside. Soon your thoughts of her will consume most of your day. So does she decide when you are released or get to cum or is it a set time? Just remember that she shouldn't go without just because you are. Good luck and enjoy the ride! Happy for you.
So far it's just been when she wanted sex . Witch surprisingly is more this week so far than before I got my device she wanted me unlocked to day and I'm going to take a cialis 20 tonight she is planning for a wild night . She wanted me to leave it off so it doesn't take as long to get to full size !!
We don't have typical sex more than before we started this, but we do more sexually than we did. Every morning or the night before she gets oral or wand orgasm. Typically I full O per month and maybe a few ruined ones. Throw in 2 or 3 times a month I use strapon on her. About 20-30 to my 1 for orgasms.
Zeb6 you are partly right . She has always been the submissive in the past . She still enjoys when I get on top and take control or if she busy and ignoring me I will pick her up and Cary her to the bed room and throw her on the bed for a quick little make out session . It always gets her to smile . What I am trying to do is give her the control over our sexual activities bc I for most part am always horney and she said it felt like a job trying to keep me satisfied all the time.
I resigned myself to the fact that my wife wants to be submissive and even brought her girlfriend into our home and bed to sexually dominate me during most of our marriage because my wife could not bring herself to hurt me. After we moved away from her girlfriend Chastity seemed to feed my need for sexual masochism. Unlike some, it took my wife 3 years before she got rid of her guilt. Now she loves teasing and denying me and has no interest in my orgams anymore. Our sex life has increased greatly since my wife is having the best orgasms of her life while she keeps me sexually frustrated. At one time I had to ask for sex and now she is the one asking because I am find skipping a teasing session or two especially when I am in the zone, not horny or desiring an orgasm. Like many, chastity started off with me topping from the bottom as my wife is not the type to read about sex online. She has had sex with women thousands of times and did not even know what bisexual meant until a year ago. She actually told me that she never thought about it when I asked her if she considered herself bi. So I had to top from the bottom but in year 2 she started to take over and in year 3 she had control 90% of the time because we negotiated the number of orgasms I would have in the year. For 2017, I have zero say in anything and she is ramping up sex as a result. Now she really feels she is in control of our sex life and we are having a lot more sex. Well, she is as I consider it sexual torture which is OK since I am a sexual masochist.